It's a scam that's hard to prosecute. Most states still don't have the legal tools.
One emotional scam Victim's Story ～ She gave birth to twins
Scammers play on emotional triggers.
He want your time, your erotic poses, your nude photoand /video, your emotional investment.
He using a fake profile to build the relationship.
She (She was 16 years old at the time) met this guy who calls himself keane che on wechat
He claimed to be a Malaysian. He also said ''My name is Che Sze Keane, When I was 2 years old I came to Malaysia, I was born on February 8 in 1990, but recorded it by mistake on 1988, I am mixed, father is from Korea, mother is from China, so my real name is 車思謙, I am the youngest son of the five, I studied abroad in the UK. and I'm a hacker. It's between you and me''
She was 16 years old at the time. She believes whatever he says.
He promise love and marriage and build what feels like a very real relationship to the victim. He is very fast in saying he loves her.
And dumps pregnant girlfriend just months before she is due to deliver. There is the absentee — the man who isn’t there either literally or emotionally. He shapes his children in different ways.
She became pregnant at 18. He is 30.
He was never concerned about her feelings: instead of comforting her, he grumbled. He denied that the baby was his, and said that I had other men. I'm just saying.What's wrong with that? 😂 You have to abort the child but I'm not interested in paying for this.
He values his own space and time and enjoys spending time on his own, Spend his entire day playing video games, watching television, or sleeping. He is perfectly happy after that and he ran away.
After he ran away to use his photos or his name to do some sleuthing online. (Those times, we searched with every variance of his name)
Keane chee, keane che, 朱思堅,車思謙, kimchi, ah_geng_ah_tee, kimchi, kimchi Keane, kimcheane,朱踢踢-梅子哥,kimkim-chan,,, etc
Look for any inconsistencies, see if what he’ve told her about themselves adds up. found out that there was something strange on the his website. He has Many Names and Nationality, Scenario.(〇〇mixed)
🚩Outside the scam, it's almost impossible to explain such irrational behavior.
It's just - it's devastating. There's no other way to describe it
The more I think about him and who he probably is ― he probably has a very sad existence. he might not even realise what he's doing is wrong.
If you thought you were adult enough to have sex, then you should be adult enough to take responsibility. You run this time.
And why should she have to take care of the baby by herself? You'd really do that to someone who's probably scared and hoping for your support? also put yourself in the child's shoes. Imagine how they might feel knowing their biological father didn't care enough to stick around.
The victim’s lack of familiarity with the scammer’s country lets the scammer make claims that are not easy to verify.
What people don’t understand is how the victims in these scams are manipulated and groomed. For the criminals, this is their job and they are extremely good at it.
Lying on your real name and personal history or education and work history? Dont fudge facts.
Justifying bad behavior is really just an excuse to not address significant issues in your relationship because of fear.
What are some excuses that justify bad behavior?
您也会这样做吗？这样的犯罪给人带来的不只是经济损失，往往还伴随情感上的折磨。我不會刻意說亞洲國家責備受害人的問題更嚴重，而是外國人和華人對事件的取態會非常不同。我們之所以會有這種「譴責受害者」的邏輯。 是因為我們在潛意識里，把這些犯罪行為當做了「常識」。 而把受害者當做了「無知」的人。
