Reading into online affairs and filling in "gaps" with your own interpretation will only wear down your experience online.
Interacting with people online isn't always easy, and there will be times where you notice "gaps". It could be a change in communication, it could be a change in speed, it could be a change in presence and said changes will often make you think; "what could this be". In many scenarios, you might also try to explain it yourself and in a lot of times those explanations will come back to you in negative way or in a general narrative that causes your thoughts to overwork themselves.
Therefore it's important to allow your brain to unclench, and acknowledge that most of the time it's not even about you. Life gets hectic, there are different priorities to be made and people are just people.
