#opd

[criatchura]

O Cinerária. In my 2026.

[ursulaincorporated]

Hello, hello. I am starting Ordem Paranormal: Desconjuração. Holy shit, I am so excited. 21/88. I will catch up. I swear to god. I will get there.

[feminetomboy]

Pyromania.

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OKAY, LOOK. THEY WERE SUPPOSED TO BE SHOTGUNNING. BUT I COULDN'T DRAW SMOKE COMING OUT OF JOUI'S MOUTH WITHOUT IT LOOKING LIKE. A DIFFERENT. LIQUID. SO JUST IMAGINE THAT PART YOURSELF!!!!!!

[rabbit-harpist]

this is canon right

[crowghosty]

i've been kinda burned out and dead for the summer, but i'm back i'm back !!

finally finished this little thing for kaiser, i'm really happy with it hihi :) also have a couple more of him coming up maybe sometime soon (one of my favorite characters so far, can you tell hhh)

[miscellaneousritual]

I am giggling over how weird opd is for Dante again. You're allowed out of your definitely not legal imprisonment and the team your given is: the team leader who fucking hates your guts, a guy who seemingly wants nothing to do with you, the two people who arrested you, the married couple who was involved in your fucked up ritual, your little sister who has amnesia, and then the guy who immediately brings you to meet his fucking mom.

[xxcapybaragamingepic1337xx]

kaiser fanart except its from @theperksofbeingstupid wonderful fic that you should go read neoww

[lethroe]

Is narcissistic abuse is a valid term? (OPEN DISCUSSION)

Edit: I've come to the conclusion that while I understand a need for its use in a psychiatric or therapytic setting, its colloquial use is harmful. Even if im not using it collocquially, other people less educated may feel encouraged to use it. Limiting use would help reduce colloquial use therefore that is what i will do and what I suggest to others.

I encourage disagreement so I can learn. Id like to know your opinions.

Theres levels of things. Someone can be a narcissist or self important and its not on a disordered level. Some are disordered and lets say that has 3 levels: mild, moderate, and severe. I think to be abusive you have to first be disordered. And i dont just mean this for narcissism. Any disordered behavioural pattern could be taken to a level of abusive like depression, anxiety, ocd, anything. I would say it overlaps with disordered but isnt a representation of disordered people.

Narcissistic is an adjective. Narcissistic abuse would be abuse that is influenced by the Narcissistic behaviour patterns. It doesnt make all Narcissists evil or abusive at their core. Abuse is a behaviour all on its own. To be a Narcissistic abuser, you have to be abusive.

I agree with the destigmatising of NPD and BPD due to them being connected to serial killers in past years. I dont think NPD or any PD causes a disregard for human life, safety, and sanity. Even when you lack empathy, you are still aware of the effects of your actions.

I dont think the issue is the people who have been abused using terms to help them describe what happened but rather a lack of education and normalisation of disabilities and disorders despite them being extremely common. I mean it really wasnt that long ago that people like you and me were put in disappointment rooms or sold or stuffed into lunatic asylums to rot. Narcissist was a term long before the diagnosis existed and has steadily stayed a term used over time. Honestly I think the disorders should just be renamed. I dont think

Again i want to hear opinions! I am not someone with NPD but i am someone abused by someone who had narcissistic tendencies and his abuse was centered around him not taking criticism and him criticising everyone else. He cant admit fault. Thay kind of junk. So please give imput! I want to be proven wrong. Please just try and keep it civil and remember that NPD doesnt make you an evil or abusive person. It doesnt even make the chance of being abusive higher. It doesnt you any less than someone without it.