#operant power

[riansdiary]

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Dearest Gentle Readers...

Hello to everyone who has always read and supported my loa blog! Thank you so much! I've been living life and focusing on my own manifestations! If I haven't been posting, it's because I simply have nothing to teach, I'm busy or I'm focusing on myself and staying away from over consuming here. But I am back with a new epiphany I've had as I was talking to myself and thinking about the law. This is how I'm doing nowadays because it's literally the easiest way for me. It is the best way for me but it might be different from you but I'm just here to share it with anyone who agrees or who needs help with manifesting. Enjoy!

Yours Truly,

Lady Whistledown 💋

These were my thoughts from where the idea for this post came:

Okay so I was showering in the bathroom when I thought of this. Again, as per usual 🤣

"What do I do if the 3d bothers me when I see around or look at my life? Because of how different it might be to my dream life. Then I thought the best trick for that is honestly to not pay attention to unwanted so you don't take yourselves to that reality back again. And my thoughts create my reality, I have to remind myself of that. I don't follow the 3d."

"Oh because Regina wore this top, you wear it too? So what, you're gonna copy the 3d like a freaking minion or a follower? No you're the queen, the boss, the trendsetter! You're the one who sets trends aka what your thoughts are! It gets created not the other way around. No you're Blair, Regina and Chanel Oberlin! You're Jennie! What you say goes! So if there's the negative or unwanted creping into your brain, flip or think of it as a question. Like someone's asking you those negative thoughts.

"Hey Rian, do you believe you don't look pretty?" like you're at a press con and I'd answer it in my mind pretending I'm at a press con or being interviewed like "Hi! Of course, I'm pretty. Literally such a visual! Right? I seriously look so gorgeous!"

Remember this.

YOU'RE THE BOSS 👏 THE QUEEN 👏 THE TRENDSETTER! 👏

YOU ARE LITERALLY -> CHANEL OBERLIN, BLAIR WALDORF, REGINA GEORGE, JENNIE, WEDNESDAY, HONG HAEIN AND MIRANDA PRIESTLY!

When negative thoughts or assumptions creep in, take it as an opportunity to create your reality and affirm. I literally invite you to get inspired, think, act, walk like these characters I've mentioned because their mindset is perfect for manifesting because we do not follow or get fazed by the 3d. You would be giving your power away and turning the queen bee to the minion, the boss to the employee, the operant power to the copywriter of your thoughts. Every time, you think negative thoughts, remember this. "Reminder: WATCH OUT, YOU'RE CREATING YOUR REALITY! CHANGE IT TO WHAT YOU WANT!" Every time you let the negative thoughts and self talk take over, you're pulling yourself away from the reality you wanted to be in. How to jump back to the right reality? Easy, if it helps you be delusional but I would say, it's not even being delusional but changing the radio channel to what you want.

This is an example situation. Oh there's ants on the coffee table? Okay let's change the channel and create the reality we want instead. What ants? There's literally not even one on the table? Stop yourself every time you check or go "why isn't it working?" You know what you're doing, you changed the radio or tv channel again. Get back to the right one and detach. This is one of my default affirmations every time my desires pop up in my head -> "No. Of course I have my dream life. Of course I have my desires and that's final." It can even be as simple as "I have my desires" or a code word which means you have all your desires like for me, I sometimes say Lumos from Harry Potter because it's short and easy to say.

Go on, I invite to affirm naturally like one of those characters I mentioned. It helps me think more naturally if I embody their mindset and confidence. You tell it like it is! Don't forget that you lead the 3d so don't be shy to remind it sometimes.

👑 Now let's reiterate everything 👑

You’re the Boss. The 3D Follows YOU.

You’re either the leader of your reality or a follower of the 3D. And I don’t know about you, but I am not a follower.

Think about it like this: If Blair Waldorf wakes up and sees something she doesn’t like, does she just accept it? No. She fixes it, flips it, and commands what she wants. She doesn’t follow trends, she sets them.

So why are YOU following the 3D? The 3D is not your boss. It is not your reality. You are.

Step 1: Stop Reacting. Start Dismissing.

🩷 Friendly reminder that it doesn't matter if you cry or let it all out when you're upset as long as you go back at it after that and stand up. It is only not beneficial if you fall, you cry and you stay on the ground.

💅The 3D is like an annoying follower trying to tell you what’s in style. Are you just gonna copy what you see like some clueless minion? Or are you gonna be the trendsetter and make reality follow you?

🚫 If the 3D shows you something you don’t like, dismiss it. Reject it. Don’t react. Don’t spiral. That’s not your reality. Twist that dial and change the channel! Like this! Choose your favorite character and think like them! Or better yet, do it in your own commanding style because you know you're the operant power.

🗣️ Say it like Chanel Oberlin:

❌ "Ugh, as if. That’s not my reality."

❌ "3D, I don’t think so. I already have what I want. Catch up."

🗣️ Say it like Blair Waldorf:

❌ "Excuse me? That’s not my story. Reality, fix yourself. I always get what I want, and this is no exception. Now, try again."

🗣️ Say it like Jennie (BLACKPINK):

❌ "Oh? The 3D wants to test me? Cute. But let’s be clear. I already have my desires. End of discussion. Try to keep up."

🗣️ Say it like Regina George:

❌ "Wait… you actually thought I don’t have what I want? That’s so embarrassing for you. Reality follows me, not the other way around. Now, let’s never speak of this again."

🗣️ Say it like Hong Haein (Queen of Tears):

❌ "Hmm? Oh, I literally don’t care. I already have what I want. This is just old news trying to stay relevant."

🗣️ Say it like Wednesday Addams:

❌ "The idea that I don’t have my desires is almost… laughable. Reality bends to my will, not the other way around. Let’s not be ridiculous."

🗣️ Say it like Miranda Priestly:

❌ "Oh. This again? Boring. I have my desires. That’s all." (sips coffee, doesn’t even blink at the 3D's attempt to shake her.)

You don’t react. You command. The 3D doesn’t tell you what’s real. YOU DO!

Step 2: Flip It & Set the Trend.

The 3D isn’t in charge, you are. So when you notice something unwanted, take it as a cue to affirm your real reality.

Instead of thinking: “Ugh, why don’t I have my desires yet?”

Think: "No. Of course I have my dream life. Of course I have my desires. That’s final."

You don’t wait for the 3D to show you something good to believe in it. You assume it and the 3D has no choice but to follow.

Step 3: Live Like It’s Already Done.

If you already had your dream life, would you be questioning or doubting? No. You’d be enjoying it.

So act, think, and feel as if your dream life is already real. Because it is.

Final Boss Affirmation:

"3D, listen up. I have my desires because I said so. That’s final."

Say it. Mean it. Live it.

That's it. That’s the game. You don’t follow the 3D. The 3D follows you. You're literally hypnotizing the 3d. Because that's what your job is, that's what you do and when you don't stand in your power, you let the 3d take it from you.

[itsallyouwithlu]

A note from me on tarot readings

Tarot doesn’t tell you what will happen. It shows you what you’re creating, and reminds you that you get to choose differently at any time. You are the operant power. YOU have free will to choose.

It’s all you

-Lu ✨

[saber-monet]

I can change their perspective and dialogue at any point. I am the operant of power, that is my power.

[fairybaby777]

something about being out in public and knowing that everything is always working in my favour is so empowering. like wow, I really created all this & have the power to change it at any moment.

[aena-blue]

Manifestation - Patience & Persistence

Hello everyone! This is another short post to cover a simple topic under the umbrella term manifestation to hopefully shed some light on the topic.

Today is not so much an explanatory post, simply a reminder, for you, as well as for myself. Today I want to talk about patience & persistence.

Let me get this out of the way first: Do you have to be chill and patient in order to manifest your desired outcome? HELL NO. But does it feel better to be chill about it, and does it help you to remain in the state of the wish fulfilled? Well, yes. Does patience come more naturally the more you practice manifestation and the more you occupy the state of the person who has their desire? Also, very much yes.

I wouldn’t tell anyone to try and force a feeling, any feeling, and that includes patience. If you are feeling impatient, remember this, it is natural. Of course we want what we want, and we want it now. But as long as you remember something else that is even more important, then you are all good, and that thing is: Regardless of how you are feeling, your manifestation is a done deal, it already exists and you will see/hold your desire in the 3D, it is inevitable. Until it does, as I’ve said many times before, return to your imagination and keep giving yourself that experience of your desire being fulfilled, over and over again.

Through your imagination, and repeated affirmations, you can re-create your reality exactly how you want. I know how frustrating and annoying the 3D world can be but as I wrote in last week’s post “Conventional Action”, you always have the power to assign the meaning to anything and everything that goes on in your life. And I would encourage you to get as ‘delusional’ as you want. Your specific person (SP) didn’t text you back? They are hella in love with you and thinks about you ALL THE TIME. That’s all you need to know really. Go back to what it is that you want, find that feeling within yourself, practice going there, seeing it, writing about it, or talking/thinking about it (affirmations) to yourself, time and time again. 

You aren’t delusional, you created the reality you have seen up until now, so now you can re-create it however you want. But you need to remain persistent and faithful to your new state (the person who has their desire fulfilled), and IT WILL COME. It has to. It’s the law. 

One last little tip from me is to write a progress journal every day, write down any and all progress you see, any crumb of evidence that you are the god and creator of your reality, and any signs you have seen where your new assumptions are mirrored back to you. Could be from a conversation you had with someone, or some video you randomly stumbled across or a song that played in the car. Doesn’t matter how big or little, track the signs you see. This will serve as a helpful reminder and reinforce your belief in your manifesting abilities. You can also use your daily journaling process to include some scripting.

For example, if you are manifesting an SP but did not hear from them that day, shamelessly throw in a couple of sentences about how they were thinking of you non-stop that day and that they are missing you like crazy. Remember, this is your reality, you create it, you shape it, through your assumptions and your beliefs. That’s all you need to know.

You don’t have to be patient, but I hope this post has helped you to remember to keep bringing yourself back to your God self, the creator, the operant power of your reality. And, most importantly, doesn’t matter how many times you feel impatient, frustrated, annoyed, cry etc. Just let it out then go back to your imagination. Nothing can prevent you from having what you want but you.

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~ Lady Blue 💙