One of Lacanâs most oft-repeated formulas is: âmanâs desire is the desire of the Otherâ. (Seminar 11). This can be understood in many complementary ways, of which the following are the most important.
One of Lacanâs most oft-repeated formulas is: âmanâs desire is the desire of the Otherâ. (Seminar 11). This can be understood in many complementary ways, of which the following are the most important.
1. Desire is essentially âdesire of the Otherâs desireâ, which means both desire to be the object of anotherâs desire, and desire for recognition by another. Lacan takes this idea from Hegel, via KojĂšve, who states:
Desire is human only if the one desires, not the body, but the Desire of the other...that is to say, if he wants to be âdesiredâ or âlovedâ, or, rather, ârecognisedâ in his human value.... In other words, all human, anthropogenetic Desire...is, finally, a function of the desire for ârecognitionâ.
KojĂšve, 1947:6)
KojĂšve goes on to argue (still following Hegel) that in order to achieve the desired recognition, the subject must risk his own life in a struggle for pure prestige. That desire is essentially desire to be the object of anotherâs desire is clearly illustrated in the first âtimeâ of the Oedipus complex, when the subject desires to be the phallus for the mother.
Evans, Dylan. An Introductory Dictionary of Lacanian Psychoanalysis. Routledge. 1996.





















