Hey by the way fat gay men don't have to be bears if they don't want to. Bears are awesome and handsome as fuck but fat men are allowed to be on the more "fem" end of the spectrum too. I don't like that being a twink or having that more "pretty boy" energy is like... reserved for skinny people (yes before you jump into the replies I'm aware that being skinny is technically in the definition of twink. Doesn't change how i feel about it considering that i haven't heard any other more inclusive terms for the same vibe/style/type). Fat men should be able to comfortably express themselves however they want. Dress like a tumblr sexyman or a beautiful anime man who's surrounded by flower petals everytime he walks onscreen if u want, u deserve it. You are allowed to be pretty too
