#possible abuse

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I really hope this doesn’t mean what I think it means

[the-fancy-cookie]

I almost forgot to upload it but, i drew this...thing today.

Im not entirely sure what happened, but all i know is that he’s choking, and that there’s milk dripping from is mouth.

[shymeg]

So I rewatched that scene with Jug and FP and you know it's bad when Alice even moves FP away from Jughead. Like, "nope, FP that's not how we are handling this" so even though it's not like his other clearly abusive actions. If Alice got in between them after that. I'm going with it was her subtle way of enough.

[abuse-survivor-safe-space]

apparently I'm not allowed to plan to make dinner because it makes her feel guilty for never making me dinner

I don’t think this is abuse. Maybe try to talk to her about how you feel when she doesn't allow you to make dinner. Maybe if you open up to her, she can express her feelings and why she feels that way and why she is not allowing you to cook dinner. This seems like some miscommunication and it is pretty minor so I think if you feel comfortable, talk to her about it. There is not much I can go off from so I helped this helped. If you’re not satisfied, feel free to shoot us another ask or message with more information so we can help you.

-Jellyfish♡

[autistic-goblin666]

When you see a traitorous "friend" from your past...

[doffodil]

[blizzardfluffykpop]

hey I wanted to rant to you since I don't got friends.

okay so I been fighting with my mom a lot lately because she's so toxic and possessive she expects me to pay for her stuff when I as her to come with me to the store. like I get 20 items and she behaves 10 shell ask me to pay for half of her stuff and at fist I was like okay sure but its been having a lot lately like every time we go our she makes me pay for her stuff. but she doesn't want to buy me an energy drink or a bubble tae I never ask her to buy me stuff that are expensive nor do I ask her regularly. and the other day I called her out on it and she got mad and almost slapped me. now I don't know what to do.

That's totally fine~

There are quite a few suggestions I can come up with here. But the one that sounds like it will work most is refusing to pay for her stuff. Doesn't matter if she yells and gets mad at it- You have to set the boundary- Now, I would try to talk it out with her if I were you. But that's not a given- and calling them out on the behavior never works it just makes them angrier. And that's sth you def don't want. So honestly, I'd try both in your case: talking to her and setting the boundary.

Now, I can't guarantee this will help. Imo it seems rather unbalanced for her to be asking you to pay for her stuff but not paying for one of your things when she invites you out. You could try asking her to buy you the energy drink/bubble tea- each time you do hang out. But again, that depends on how okay your relationship is. I know these things are a day to basis- so you may have to test the waters a bit.

And again, I'm not sure how much you can do. And what your relationship is fully like. But I can say for certain the worst option is you paying for her stuff and never setting the boundary. So, you can pay for her stuff sometimes if you wish- but don't allow it to be habit. The worst option is doing nothing. I know it's the safest option- but if you wish to feel comfortable you have to do the uncomfortable thing.

Be safe about it though, getting yelled at is one thing being slapped/hit is another.

[fayewoods-2]

this one might be more normal but idk

so i do a lotta shit round here and so do my siblings

unpacking/packing dishwasher, watering mothers plants, taking the trash out, setting the table, cleaning the house (like sweeping/mopping and moving stuff where it goes) along with buying us groceries (but i dont get to use their car, i have to walk half an hour there and back to the nearest store and bring back milk sometimes, bread, other shit my parents decide we need

and well we dont get paid unless we do something like mowing, car washing, looking after siblings for over an hour, and we only get paid like 10 bucks for those things

yet they also expect me to be capable of saving up for shit when the only money i get is from christmas/birthdays, and they wont fucking let me get a job either