My advisor at uni really just told me that I need to "be less abrasive" because "it will make it really difficult to write good recommendation letters for you for grad school :(" when I sent her an email saying her class was stressing me out and that I needed her to be more clear on assignment instructions. Like??? She just told me to "stop being abrasive" and didn't even bring up why I felt her class wasn't working for me?
This is the same professor who told me to "go to the counseling center for your panic attacks" after I emailed her trying to get masking accommodations because my university dropped the mask mandate and I am extremely prone to pneumonia.
She brought up me being abrasive out of nowhere when she was approving my schedule for next year. Ridiculous.












