This might sound stupid but can a lesbian be in a qpr with a man ? I've identified as a lesbian for 1.5 years but i still feel like I'd want to be physical with guys sometimes, but not in a romantic way
Like i would love to have a good friendship with a guy who i can cuddle with, without it getting awkward or people thinking I'm "faking" my lesbianism
It's a queerplatonic relationship, Anon. You get to define what that means to you.
People, especially bigots, are going to make their own assumptions but you can identify as a lesbian and still have close relationships with men. You're not required to stay away from them or something like that. Enjoy yourself.












