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[parasiticghostwasps]

Pretty sure this is basically what happened

[asexual-goddessss]

Check out my QPR sub stack article featuring Loverboy & Knightmare and how I try to pose their QPP//QPR

Writing a QPR//QPP with Loverboy & Knightmare

What my comic has taught me about QPR//QPPs

[yuris-landmine]

My sweetheart's piano is rat filled , and mine is infested with bugs . . . The music we make is unnatural , but it sounds just like falling in love~

[softservecanine]

My Autism and Queerplatonic Attraction

So recently, I officially entered a queerplatonic relationship with my best friend, someone who I have considered to be my platonic soulmate for years and strive to be life partners with.

I am not aromantic, I don’t think, but I do have a weird relationship to platonicism, likely due to my autism. For a long time I’ve known I am capable of experiencing queerplatonic attraction, but recently am coming to a revelation about how prevalent that kind of attraction is in my life, which explains a lot of things I’ve had difficulty explaining before.

Here’s my thing. If we’re working on a sliding spectrum of Platonic -> Romantic, with queerplatonic being a big gradient in the middle, all of my closest relationships fall somewhere in that middle ground, with just a couple landing solidly in romantic territory. If you fall solidly in platonic territory, chances are we are friends but we’re not very close.

But if I do feel a very close tie to my friends, that line between platonic and romantic gets very blurred. I know I’m not romantically interested in this person most of the time, but I find myself wanting to do romance-adjacent things with them, or even be sexually intimate with this person, without it affecting my level of attraction.

I’m just now realizing, like… this goes for a lot of my close friends. And I’ve been very open about that, but didn’t have the precise language for it. Now I’m realizing, oh! That’s what that is.

I think if you don’t experience that weird grey area between platonic and romantic with the people you care about, 1. That’s fine and 2. You’re not going to understand this fully because that’s just how our brains differ. But I feel so lucky to get to experience these things and have it just work out with the friends I love :] teehee

Okay getting off my soapbox now

[mycutiehashtagmycutie]

HOW HAVE I NOT FUMBLED YET??????????????? I AM IN A QPR WITH THE CUTEST PERSON EVER

[cryptic-rat-in-your-walls]

I absolutely love seeing people gush about their queerplatonic relationships/partners on here but it also makes me kinda sad because why can’t that be meeeeee

[jeweldiiary]

me and my beloved qpp 💗💗💗💗💗

[lunaballoona09]

art formy wonderfull and awesome and cool qpp @cannibalnumber14 <3 i love youuuu