my favorite headcanon i have is that gojo, as loud and as arrogant as he might come across sometimes is actually super nervous and on the quiet side when it comes to talking to the person he's interested in.
yeah he might try to impress them but not on such a grand scale that comes across as "yeah im the strongest™ and youre gonna look at me" and more so just kind of observing that person and then finding what they like and going from there ... if that makes any sense.
and i headcanon geto to be the super "yeah im awesome and i know you agree" type who is suave and charming without really trying (at least when he wants to be. otherwise yes he's the reserved passive aggressive type). pokes fun when the other person gets flustered. something or other do ya get it do ya











