i think more people need to turn their queer discourse posts into inclusive & depthful positivity posts. it's not healthy that the harmful things queer people say about their peers are so difficult to escape, even when people are going against it. arguing constantly (to no avail) isn't helping.
mspec lesbians and lesboys deserve to hear their peers are proud of them, and happy to stand with them. aces and aros deserve to hear how amazing and vital their presence in this community is. non-dysphoric trans people deserve to hear their transness could only add more beauty to our community. all queers deserve words (and actions) of kindness and support. pride and solidarity.
not just arguments and that they're valid.