#queer talks

[qprconcepts]

Me trying to explain my qpr to other people: Okay so we’re more like salt and pepper than sun and moon if you get my drift. We’re the homies who kiss each other goodnight do you get it-

-🧂

so silly ><

[bagelnbail]

I usually don’t look around for discord servers but oUGH I wanna talk about kcd2 so bad with someone helllllp

[unwilling-souls-if]

ROs genders & orientations

Considering some asks other IF authors have received, and the fact I never actually made a post about the RO’s gender identities/sexual and romantic orientations/etc, I figured now was the time!

The RO’s queerness will be talked in game, no matter which RO you’re romancing, if any. There is no genderlocked route, and you can romance all the ROs no matter your MC.

Xander

Cisgender man, he/him

Bisexual.

He has no preference towards a particular gender.

Charlotte

Demigirl, she/they

Demisexual, panromantic. 

Charlotte is a demigirl, which means she identifies partially as a woman and partially as something else, for her it's woman and non-binary.

While she can fall in love with someone regardless of gender, there won’t be any sexual attraction until she formed a deep emotionnal bond with them.

Dione

Transgender woman, she/her

Bisexual. 

She doesn’t have much experience, but she has a preference towards women. You’ll still be able to romance her if your MC is a man or non-binary.

Perceval

Genderqueer, they/he/xe (no order). This is the label they use to explain their identity, but they personally feel indifferent to it. They’ve tried a few labels before, such as demiboy or bigender, but he didn’t feel like it suited him.

Biromantic, greysexual. Xe are romantically attracted to all gender, but xe rarely experience sexual attraction, or with low intensity.

Crescent

Non-binary, they/them

Pansexual.

They have more experience with other non-binary people, but they don’t have a strong preference.

[local-hyena-reblogs]

Also, i really like the fact that Laszlo and Nadja are in a kind of open/polyamorous relationship. I just think it's funny addition that gives good comedy and representation. Cuz they love eachother so much but they don' mind when the other (litterally) fuck around (cf. I forgot his name but the burned one). Bureau Laszlo can get jealous too (cf. Gregor)

Also I hope the Guide and Marwa will end up together

(I have little to no knowledge about poly people/relationships plz correct me if I am wrong about something)

And u know what ? There's other things I want to talk about. I am rlly glad that we're getting more *good* queer characters/shows. Cuz sometimes, I feel like some characters are "gay" just for the sake of habing a gay character. But now, look at it : we have What We Do In The Shadows and Our Flag Means Death, who has a lot of genuinly queer characters. There's also Heartstopper, but I haven't watched it. And Good Omens. They are married.

This also brings le to the subject of straight relationships on medias. The reason why people have non-canon gay ships, it's mostly necause the canon straight ships are boring as fuck. There's no chemistry, or it just feels... "forced". Like two random characters end up together cuz the main character must have a love interest. I don't care about that, I don't care if the character's gay or straight or anything else, I just want the fuckin romance. I have tons of ships, mlm, wlm and wlw ships, and I am not saying stuff like "I ship it cuz it's gay", I ship it cuz the dynamics are heckin interesting, damn it.

Anyway, I am exited about these shows having new seasons. I expect a nandermo kiss by the end of season 4. I don't exoect anything from GO season 2, I'll be happy with whatever mister Neil Gaiman provides us. I expect ofmd season 2 to be as hilarous and cute as season 1. And as Ed is now emo, plz let him listen to mcr or some kind of fake emo band. That would be fuckin hilarious.

[queerkuro]

it's okay to misgender me if it's funny

[caramelsocks]

My favorite part of both Simon VS. The Homosapians Agenda and Love, Simon is when Simon is explaining to Leah why he came out to Abby first. It's hard to realize something about you is different than what everyone you know expected and then try to tell them that. I knew I liked girls by the time I was 11, but despite having a family and community I knew would be supportive, I didn't explicitly come out to anyone until I was 14, and even then that was just someone I'd been hanging out with at a three day long theater camp and haven't seen since. Whenever I see coming out posts or writings etc it's always the queer person coming out to family or someone they've known since they were little first and I know for a lot, maybe even most people that's how it is, but I always felt bad about officially coming out to barely an acquaintance before my parents (even if they knew loooong before I told them). Even now, at almost 17, I'm so much more comfortable discussing it with people who are new to my life. I was homeschooled for the majority of my life and started public school just this year; as opposed to when I told the friends and mothers in my homeschool group who I'd known since I was six onwards, I showed up at school on the first day wearing three rainbow pins on my jacket. I sat with the kids with dyed hair and fishnet stockings, and everyone got it. And I was fine with that. I wasn't altering who I was in these people's minds. And I love that I had to opportunity to rewrite myself as who I really am. No Christian-teacher-moms second guessing and asking me about boyfriends and when I'm going to grow out my hair required.

[lgbt-mum-adventures]

Here’s something my amazing partner wrote recently in regards to being the non-bio mum that I wanted to share here. ((Plus some cute art I did of her and P !)) Honestly the truth is that I totally forget that we’re an LGBT/queer family. I don’t remember that P isn’t biologically related to my partner (most of the time, she forgets too!). Why would my brain even keep track of a thought like that, when I’m so busy loving this amazing family and running around being a mum?  This is why it can be so confronting when strangers suddenly burst that bubble with intrusive questions or remarks about our family.  Of course we feel it’s important to educate and normalise, but in general if you wouldn’t ask a straight couple, why would you ask us? xD Facebook Art Tumblr Twitter