#questioning mspec

[questioning-culture-is]

Can you explain to me the nuances of the differences between bisexual and pansexual? Like, with examples or something? Because I think I kind of get it, but also not, and sometimes I feel like both. thanks, btw.

no clue, but maybe @mspec-culture-is, @pan-culture-is or @bi-culture-is can help

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[questioning-culture-is]

Questioning culture is being unsure if you're straight or bi because you can't tell if your attraction towards girls is actually romantic or just aesthetic, and then after years of that, suddenly realizing that the same question may apply to boys too

And now you've gone from questioning m-spec to questioning aro-spec.

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[questioning-culture-is]

So Ik I’m mspec but I’m not really sure what I’m that category. Like I’m pretty sure I’m not pan bc I have preferences but I’m not sure if I’m bi or omni and if im the latter should I just say I’m bi or pan since no one knows what omni is? Idk confusion

Hey anon, pan people can have preferences (just fyi /gen), and it's mostly up to you which label you prefer!!

maybe check out @mspec-culture-is, @bi-culture-is, @pan-culture-is, and @omni-culture-is to see what you vibe with most!!

-toni

[questioning-culture-is]

I've been very confused over what i identify as in terms of attraction. I know i identify as she/they in gender, but for attraction I've just been answering with it's complicated because thats hust how it feels. I am attracter to men, women and non-binary people, but thats where it gets complicated. I am only romantically attracted to men not sexually, i am attracted to women romantically, but I'm also only attracted to non-binary people sexually and romantically. It's really confusing like am i biromantic, pansexual, or am i somwhere on the asexual spectrum because the idea of having sex with either me or women is really repulsive to me???? I have no idea, and if anyone has the same feelings or has any idea over what that would identify as i would appreciate the help. Thank you!!

Hey anon!! Obviously i can't tell you your orientation but i will add some thoughts and i encourage anyone else to add on.

For your romantic orientation it sounds like you could use an m-spec label like bi-/pan- or omniromantic

For your sexual orientation it is absolutely possible that you are asexual. You might also want to look into enbian (nblnb), hecatolic (nblnb & wlnb) and asterian (wlnb) (assuming these might apply with your pronouns).

I hope this helps, for consider checking out the following culture blogs and looking up some of the mentioned terms

@variorientedcultureis @mspec-culture-is @bi-culture-is @omni-culture-is @pancultureis @ace-culture-is @questioning-aspec-culture-is @aspec-culture-is @microlabelcultureis @pan-demi-culture @enbian-culture-is

[questioning-culture-is]

questioning culture is thinking you're aro then realising you're in love with your friend so thinking maybe you're an arospec lesbian but then getting a crush on your other best friend so what if you're bi/mspec or maybe that wasn't even a crush and you just like him platonically and it's all too confusing

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[questioning-culture-is]

I'm aegosexual, maybe demisexual or demiromantic and I don't know if i'm heteroflexible or bi, pan, poly..

Cuz back when I was a kid I fantasized alot of naked women idk why its weird and I thought it was normal back then and suddenly they say being attracted to same sex is wrong and now I'm went back to that memory and I'm starting to question if do like girls?? So ummm

I can't tell you your sexuality and from that info I don't think I can give advice, but if anyone relates feel free to share!!

[questioning-culture-is]

questioning mspec gay culture is being so confused on why you just feel this tertiary attraction towards women

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