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ramabear replied to your post: did i tell y’all about the “drama” i had with the...

anything where “graphic designer” is in quotes is sure to be good. ouo

it’s so funny tbh bc he was talkin big game but then didn’t do anything lol

pornosophical replied to your post: did i tell y’all about the “drama” i had with the...

nope. dish if you pls

absolutely, friend! this shit long, so the rest is under cut enjoy :)

so i already got beef with this group because 90% of the exec board i had to work with because we were merging the two queer groups on campus into one. and none of them have any sort of “Adulting” skills ie taking notes during meetings, coming to an agreement in 10 minutes, or being precise with agendas of said meetings. 

i’m the graphic designer for our pride board (community-based group rather than university). Newly Merged Group from the uni sends in one person to sit in our meetings. we like the idea of working & helping them organize campus pride events and then we have our two days of pride events. 

i ask Uni Kid if they preferred me to do their flyer design or if they wanted their graphic designer to do it. Uni kid said I could do it. this is in november of last year.

fast forward a couple weeks ago. somebody from their board told my friend (who’s secretary for our pride group) they was talking shit about me doin the flyer in the groupme. of course, he took pics of it and showed me. the messages go like this, all from their “graphic designer”:

>Yes [campus org] is gonna have their own fucking flyers >Pride didn’t give us any support for our events >So [CAMPUS ORG]’s name is gonna be in OUR flyers >They can fight me about it

Me being me, I was like “Oh Really?” and was about to @ their pride meeting person in our Pride groupme to find out What Was Up. Friend talked me out of it and was like “PLEASE use your cold anger to do that Thing You Do.” thing being my No Shit tone I use in ANY meeting. 

So I wait until the next day to address this at our meeting. I’m hearing that campus org’s people might be at the meeting, INCLUDING the graphic designer. I wear stud earrings and have a hair tie ready, cuz if he tries something I’ll be ready. I wasn’t worried about the others tbh because they talk big game but won’t actually do anything. Like they tumblr gays who do the “UwU” type shit and cry if you say the wrong thing in the Wrong Tone. This “graphic designer” is always talking about how he’s in the army, and I’m ALWAYS like “Oh Word? Tell me how the pavement tastes when you hit it.”

So meeting begins. Only ONE person from their org comes to the meeting. I know this guy, he’s soft-spoken but I wanted him to know that I don’t play with this type shit. I told him to take notes, he got his pen and notebook ready.

I say:

>I’m absolutely disgusted by the lack of communication and professionalism within your board.

>From the very beginning, y’all said it was cool for me to do the flyer. Y’all should’ve spoke up and LET US KNOW ASAP when y’all changed your damn mind.

>Y’all didn’t say anything about needing our help for ANYTHING. [Friend’s name] was asking y’all and NONE of you said anything. So there’s that.

>You have wasted my time, energy, and effort. I’m angry, hurt, and honestly disappointed in how y’all conduct your group. You are an OFFICIAL organization housed under [Official University Center Name]. You have reach. To conduct yourselves in this manner is reckless & childish

AND THE FINAL PIECE...

>I’m gonna say this bluntly, as simple as possible. If ANY miscommunication happens, then it’s because it’s a BLATANT LIE. I’m not finishing your flyer design. You’re not getting my photoshop file. You’re not getting the pdf. I’ve already deleted them off the drive. I’m done. Next item on the agenda, please.

Poor guy was shaking. But it’s what he gets for standing by and letting that exec board talk over people in meetings. 

EVERYONE on our exec board was behind me. It was great. Anyway, I just checked campus org’s social media and they haven’t uploaded ANY of their campus pride events. And if they do post them, I KNOW the images are gonna look like shit because I know that “graphic designer’s” work. They’re still scrambling to get shit scheduled.

I’ll be happy when it all crashes and burns :)

[pornosophical]

ramabear replied to your post: learning about Gaiman’s fuck up with magic really...

could you explain this a bit more? it sounds interesting and i’d like to know more

okay. okay. I am just not sure where to start

I guess the first is that magic is, y’know, frequently sorted into masculine and feminine. witches vs wizards. but past that, there is magic symbology that’s found in biology

the penis is a wand, sword, or a staff; the vagina is a grail, cup, or cauldron

each of these things has occult significance. past this, it’s important to remember that western magical theory is syncretic but draws very heavily from Kabbalistic traditions, and that the tree of life itself is divided into male and female essences via the individual sephira

these alignments produce meanings and associations that go far beyond the body, but remain firmly rooted in it

they don’t have to, though

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@ramabear replied to your post: im still staring at that lawsuit like….. imagine...

I can only imagine how horrifying it would be to someone to just have this come across their desk, no warning, no explanation, one day they know ignorance and the next they know what omegaverse is and they will never be the same

the poor judge!!

but another absurd thing about the lawsuit is that apparently one of the people involved is claiming to have invented m/f omegaverse genre and therefore someone else writing within the same genre is somehow plagiarism?

which... 1) honey omegaverse existed on the internet long before you came along to monetize it and 2) you can’t.... “plagiarize” an entire genre.... do you know what genres are and how they work..................... 

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It's finished. It's... it's good, I think. Just me throwing in guesses to things that may go down in the future for the fic. Like I think it'd be great if katsuki got srsly banged up and izuku would go thru the sheer fucking turmoil that kacchan did. I also super like scars, and I think dad might may be ajin, but I'm not familiar enough with that series to be confident in my fan theory.... Just. Fuck. I love this ship so hard.

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@ramabear is one of the most prolific writers i’ve ever seen, and everything they churn out blows everything else out of the water.

[theatricalplacenta]

A smol sketchy thing for a boy and his dog <3 There will be more... explicit stuff for this AU on my new nsfw blog!! Check out Theasus-After-Dark !! (all bnha now, but will get some variety soon!)

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ramabear replied to your photo

i misread this the first time as "that guy's a prick inside of bakugou" and i died.

OMG rama!!! hahaha that’s a thought ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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A message to Ramabear

@ramabear Okay I finally have gotten caught up! (I started a new job that I'm still not well enough to be working at so I have been exhausted) Katsuki and Izuku recognizing each other's heartbeats! Izuku realizing he was with Tsuyu and not his Kacchan was almost instant. Katsuki being so sure that he was listening to Izuku's heartbeat!!! That killed me it was sweet and amazing and I was so happy that they were reunited! Katsuki's dad is a super jerk! Like he wouldn't go chasing for his wife if something like that happened. The lady that was with Katsuki's dad slightly freaked me out because I don't know what her deal is! Was it because of how they suspect that the gas leak was caused by Izuku? Katsuki's dad didn't even ask him what happened to him personally while all that shit went down. I am so not ready for Katsuki and his mom seeing each other again. I don't know what Katsuki is going to do! Will he confront her about Izuku's limbs? Poor Inko! Why did Hisashi have to fly off the handle like that. Especially when he wasn't in their live like he should have been. He just seemed to look down on her so much. But Inko is such an saint person there had to have been a time when he thought so too at least I hope. Izuku is such a softcore badass!! He is so calm in the face of his fathers histeria! He really doesn't seem to like him very much he even made his mom stay back because he didn't trust the man to not do something. (It made me wonder if he was thinking that your feelings for mother changed so why can't Katsuki's feelings change for me). Izuku's empathy for others seems to be limited to people he truly cares about. Like with his mother and Ochako possibly since he went to go apologize to Iida when she insisted. Izuku was so sweet sending Katsuki home with his dad. Like he want Katsuki to appreciate his parents because the do seem to care for him in their own way. But the way Inko loves Katsuki seems much more open and caring about his wants. Especially after she found out what Izuku had Katsuki do. You can't see and do those types of things and not grow up in a slightly twisted way. Liking doesn't make you an adult by any means but your not really a child anymore. Izuku has died so many times today. I hope that Inko will hold him close after he really needs it since Katsuki wasn't around for a lot of his resets. It would be great to see him wearing cloths that Katsuki left there so he can have some comfort! All in all I just wanted to remind you that you are an amazing writer and your stories make me feel things so intensely! I am never sure what to do with myself after reading! I even made my sister-in-law read this and she isn't into anime or anything she just likes reading! She said that even without know either series she really understands what's going on and that she couldn't stop reading! She was really mad at me for not reading the newer chapters of Laceration because she wanted to talk about it with me. I think it really says something about how good a writer is when people who don't know the series and can read a fanfic like it's a regular book and still understand everything that is going on! Don't be stressed to reply to me I just wanted to give you thanks for all your hard work!