can we talk about how my cis male coworker who’s the same age as me and largely less qualified gets consistent praise, respect, and overtime pay from the boss despite wandering off on the job to do very ADHD things like build a bridge, break in to a building, or zoom around on the tractor while he’s forgetting to latch gates and neglecting scheduled chores and cleaning, whilst I, the mostly femme-perceived guy who’s consistently finished all my chores (and some of his) on time and also kept the space much cleaner and safer, get no overtime pay, get called lazy and inefficient, am not allowed to drive the tractor, and also get falsely accused of breaking and entering