Men on Tumblr will be like “why is no one in my DMs thirsting over me” and “why is no one sending me nudes” and “why aren’t I getting any interactions in my asks” and they have never once shown any modicum of personality on their entire blog.
Like, my dudes, it’s not something that just happens because your blog exists and you post a “reblog if you think your female followers should send you nudes 😜💦💦” meme. Give people a reason to *want* to interact with you. Be worth interacting with.











