Making It Beautiful For You
Relationships don't just happen out of nowhere, it takes time, commitment and a willing heart. What I'm gonna say is, any relationship not just between a couple but it can be between friends, family or colleagues. It definitely takes a long time to build up a relationship, so don't expect a relationship overnight.
I've become more selective with the people I spend time with. Well, it can't be help. I've probably learnt not to waste time with people who don't make time for you. Especially those who are not willing to. i used to be positive about it, however it doesn't help, it just wasted almost 1/5 of my life, obviously, they don't care much about you. So how about diverting your attention and spending time with positive people worth your time? It's probably much more fruitful and happier than those rejecting your efforts continuously.
I love reading magazines, online and even my recent addict, the mobile app - Audible! I read this and it's motivating for anybody and a good read!
It’s not diamonds and flowers that make a relationship remain as warm, loving and intimate. It's knowing a person's acceptance and willing to spend their time and honestly want to be together.
7 Successful Relationship Secrets
Praise Your Partner for the Little Things
If there's something you appreciate about your partner, from the way he or she makes scrambled eggs to how hard he or she is working on decorating the bedroom, speak up. Praise provides a reminder of your love.
The good we do tends to come back to us. When you're thoughtful to your partner, he or she's more inclined to be thoughtful in return. So remember to buy each other's favourite dessert, cut out or email articles you think your partner might like, or take on the other's jobs like arranging for your partner to have a day off, with no housework or expectations.
Failing to keep your word can destroy the unity and trust in a relationship. It's better to say 'Let me think about it' than to say you'll do something but fail to deliver.
Take turns choosing an arts or cultural event to attend together each month. The point is to show your partner what you love, so that he or she can experience it as you do (or close enough). To make this work, both of you have to be flexible: someone might have to attend a football match or the theatre. The reward lies in experiencing each other's passion. And who knows – you may have a lot more fun than you ever
No one wants to be ignored, give time to each and every one of them so you can understand every individual properly and this can prevent any misunderstandings in the future.
Whether its your maid or step child, they also deserve love and affection from you as you deserve from your wife/husband or from your own child. Treat everyone like you would want to be treated, and getting along with your family should be easy. Acceptance is seeing with your heart, not with your eyes.
Love is made up of three unconditional properties in equal measure, acceptance, understanding, appreciation.
Avoid using offensive and abusive words against each other.
Admit it, nobody likes to hangout with someone who is always criticising, condemning or judging you. Basically, nobody likes negative hurtful words.
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