#relationshipmistakes

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[edwardgdunn]

One Of The Biggest Relationship Mistakes We Can Make

Words are proof that human beings can “cast spells.”

Words have an effect on our heart rate, blood pressure, and as was demonstrated in the famous water experiments conducted by Dr. Masura Emoto, even on the cells and molecules of our bodies.

In these experiments, words were taped to the exterior of containers containing water molecules. Words like, “Thank you” and “I love you”. The crystals were then frozen and produced spectacular, beautiful cohesive patterns not unlike snowflakes.

Conversely, when negative words such as “I hate you” and “You make me sick” were attached to the containers, the frozen water molecules displayed incoherent patterns that were anything but beautiful and geometric. Considering that our bodies are made up of over 70% water, imagine the impact words have on our physiology and our relationships.

The hardest lesson I’ve learned is that words spoken in anger, without consideration for the their immense power, can severely damage even the best relationships. They can leave scars that last a lifetime. They can’t be unsaid.

Strive to choose the words you use in a relationship carefully. Allow them to mirror the love and respect you feel for the person you are speaking to – no matter how angry you may be in the moment.

It isn’t always easy, but it is always worth it.

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[joelekm]

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[respecthepouch24]

Let's go for some New Years Reflection! Yay!

A year ago from this time..I was not particularly a happy camper, partially because my then-boyfriend was constantly gone when this Christmas vacation was solely meant to catch up on more time from us being apart...but I posted a picture, it was a collage, and he was mostly in it. And I said it was one of the best years of my life because it was when I met him, and I went on about how blessed I was and what exciting and great things this new year will bring!

well.....

little did my naive mind know that at some point in this year my entire heart and soul would be ripped from my body, leaving me bleeding and gasping for air, struggling to put the pieces together which were my shattered self. 

I'd say I'm pretty well put together by now. 

And lessons. I learned some of THE VERY BEST LESSONS, I could have ever learned in such a short amount of time, which was this year. I look back on my experience being thankful for the incredible lessons I learned, which I unfortunately only could have learned, through direct experience. 

DON'T DATE SOMEBODY YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH. DON'T. DO. IT. 

If the only thing you have in common is not wanting to be alone...well then run. Run away. Trying to force a relationship that really does not have a good basis, in well, anything, is a recipe for DISASTER. 

Wanting short term satisfaction in return for long term pain is what dating someone you don't really like or do not have that much in common with is going to do.

It's easy for people to fall in love with each other, one person shows interest, the other person shows interest, you both show interests, you get excited over the cute things the other person does for you and says to you, and then you fall down the spinning spiral into the love trap.

and if you fall in love with someone you don't have anything in common with, well, that kind of sucks..

soon you sort of start resenting the person, even if you do love them. Things they do tick you off. whether it is that they're always late, say something out of taste, texting other girls, cancelling dates, not doing anything for your birthday..

and you're just sort of in this unhappy mess. and you choose to stay, even though you are unhappy, because you think maybe if you stay it'll get better, or maybe the rare good times are worth all the shitty mess, and plus, who really wants to be alone?

but then, when the other person dumps you, after all you tried for them and persevered for them. after all the chances you gave them...they leave you. and you're left completely destroyed. Because you invested your happiness in another human being rather than yourself. You gave up all your friends just to spend the most time with him. You gave up going to Europe just for him. You planned most of your life just around him. 

First boyfriend. First real love. First huge mistake.

If only I had listened to my gut, and left when I wanted to, I could have prevented so much hurt. If only I based judgments off of actions, instead of words. If only I had chosen to be with someone I actually had things in common with, and genuinely enjoyed their presence without forcing it. 

I don't have any regrets. Like the stupid saying goes, everything happens for a reason. I learned a lot. I learned to never lose myself again. 

Now I know what to look out for, what kind of guy to be with. I will know when it is time to leave (when you are continually dissatisfied and unhappy). And I know I will have the strength to go, because I know it will hurt less in the long run, to feel a little pain now. 

I wish I could have been wiser, I really do. I wish someone would have told me, with gravity, how important this is. But I learned it myself, and I have the rest of my life to live. I am a happy individual, and I welcome any and all incredible lessons to my life, even if they hurt. 

2013 taught me more than any other year has taught me in my entire 18 years of existence.

2014, will be a good year. Any year you're alive is a good year. And I welcome any and all wonderful surprises, twists, turns, smiles, laughs, and opportunities it may bring. I wish everyone good health and happiness.