#respect men

[rockababe03]

always be good to your♥️

[hungryhungryterminator]

Men are beautiful and they deserve respect 🌹❤️

[echoxxx3000]

Rq

Do y'all know how annoying it is for your friends (acquaintances rly) to go and say: "You ARe eIGhteEn aNd in a relATionSHip! WHy haVEn't yOu kISseD heR yEt!? HaH LOseR!!!"

Bitch.

One: Covid

Two: She lives in another state. So, even if Covid wasn't a thing, it's like an hour long drive to get to her and only my mom has a car.

Third: I have had it ingrained into my feeble little brain that the first kiss should be S P E C I A L ! ! ! SO IT IS GOING TO BE SPECIAL DAMMIT!!! I DON'T CARE IF I HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL THE GODDAMM WEDDING DAY TO GET MY KISS I WILL FUCKING WAIT!!!

"WEll if yoU wANt tO kISs her thEN KisS heR jUSt do it NOt a biG deAL rIGht-"

NO YOU ASSHOLE!!! I WILL PROCEED TO BE AN AWKWARD LIL BEAN AND ASK HER REPEATEDLY IF SHE IS OK WITH ME KISSING HER!!! THEN I WILL PROCEED TO ASK IF SHE'S OK AND IF I DID ANYTHING WRONG AFTER WE HAVE KISSED!!! I will NOT do ANYTHING my beautiful girl is uncomfy with or doesn't want! I might be disappointed or beg her a little, but if it really does bother her then FINE!!! I WILL RESPECT MY GIRL AND HER BOUNDARIES AND IF ANY OF Y'ALL DISAGREE WITH IT I WILL BE WILLING TO PERSONALLY FIGHT YOU FOR MY GIRL'S HONOR AND SAFETY!!!

[cerebralchaos-]

Incendiary post.

* Trigger warning.*

Let's talk about accountability. As a man, how am I to protect our black women if there is so much animosity towards men? How am I to tell you that ol' dude ain't legit, that place or person is abusing or manipulating you, etc. if you generalize all men as your enemy? I have my own ways, and they mostly work. But I have encountered several women that are so into this SJW/feminism movement that they seem to seek out conflict and confrontation in anything expressed by men / males. Like the avenue towards understanding is completely cancelled because they've in essence crossed into anti-men feminism. But if I express or point it out in suddenly 'mansplaining'; I listen to understand. I seek knowledge wisdom and understanding constantly. But if your information contains none of those then I'm gonna call you out on it-if i care. If i don't I'll let you be incorrect in your blissfully miserable ignorance. Those that I care about and listen receive priceless wisdom. Those that don't listen tend to categorize me as whatever adjective of their choice. And yet in doing so tend to prove my point. I hate being right about the wrong things. I'd much rather be wrong and corrected than being right about people i care about's inherent but unconscious biases. People have told me 'my tone' is 'incendiary'. But I've also heard this being referred to as 'tone policing'. The irony is, I don't believe the black woman needs to watch her tone and that she should be allowed to express what she feels how she feels it when she feels it. But that reciprocity in kind is rare. I understand that people use their experience as a base of understanding, but it seems as though that isn't understood on their part. That women do men wrong too. And if that is my experience but I don't generalize as this is all women's behavior, why do I receive the generalization? It is essentially sexist. And you could say 'well patriarchy is an institution'; and you'd be correct. But that institution DOES NOT INCLUDE black men. Do your research and you will see. It never has included black men. This is historically evidenced. Particularly in the u.s.

I no longer identify with being a feminist, feminism didn't include black women in its origin. It doesn't include black people in the present. It is much like the present day politics where black people are just used for numbers to pass white agendas. But that's another topic for another day.

My question is: black women, how can we do our parts to protect and honor you, if you aren't willing or able to receive such from XY? There are good men out there, just as there are good women out there. But if you aren't willing to be accountable [to yourself] for the roles and actions and choices you play/make then you're really not for real about it.

I see the glorification if "savage" behavior, as if it is the height of femininity. But it really is just toxic femininity imitating toxic masculinity. I wonder why women took all the bad examples of shitty males and chose that to imitate? If men were being hoes and it was a problem, how does becoming a hoe in kind resolve the issue? If men being negligent and abusive was a problem, how does becoming negligent and abusive in kind resolve the issue? I don't understand how or why that was the route taken. And bow we have women glorifying abd emulating toxic behavior to be equal, but if niggas ain't shit why be ain't shit with them? Why not choose better? Why not break the cycle? Why create generational curses on yourself and your children? Why honor toxic and fragile femininity instead of divine femininity?

You can ask the opposite and I'll answer from my perspective and experience. And I'll listen genuinely. And i won't even match your spite or pettiness. I wanna know. And if you have insight speak up. 'Cause I wanna understand.

We always hear this socially engineered battle if the sexes. Men and women are equal yes. But the same? No. The idea is a preposterous folly. Why even try to do everything a man can when you can do so many things that a man cannot-innately and naturally so. Questions that demand answers.

[queerloser17]

Tom Holland: *holds hands with someone who could be his girlfriend or could not be*

12 year olds: hES DATING SOMEONE THATS NOT ME ITS NOT FAIR TOM IS MIIIINE LETS BULLY THE GIRL SO SHE’LL STOP DATING HIM AHAHAHA

Y’all. She could not even be his girlfriend. Either way she deserves our

RESPECT

and they both deserve

PRIVACY

Chill out. Leave them alone.

[genderrolesandkinks]

If Women can respect men,

Men can respect women👊👊

[thecurlyhousefairy]

For all men that deserve to be loved and respected in our lives, this is how.

I love how you can see a man grow right in front of you when you admire him. He stands a little taller, he smiles wider, he wants to never let you down.