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would boynextdoor date a fan?

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jaehyun: ace of wands + king of wands + 4 of pentacles + 4 of cups + queen of cups + page of pentacles + king of pentacles + 8 of cups on the bottom

he's not only curious about it but also has a lot of desire to try dating a fan and seeing where it goes, especially because he has a lot of affection towards the fans and sees them with heart eyes if that makes sense. unconsciously that might mix things up in his head a little bit. however, he represses that because for him there's no such thing as mixing work with his private life since he's very serious when it comes to his responsibilities, the reading is portraying him as a very diligent guy. also, whenever that desire to get closer to a fan arrives, it's like he immediately thinks no no i can't, forget it, and just ignores it. on the other hand, i can see that he might be open to very subtle flirt, nothing too blunt, just like a fun conversation that could have some double meanings because he thinks it's a fun or cute way to interact with fans, even though he blocks any type of real romantic or emotional development related to those situations. he definitely would rather put some sort of emotional distance towards the fans romantically speaking of course, not because he doesn't think fans are good enough for him or anything like that from what i can see here, but because he thinks that because of that love or obsession they might feel for him could cause some damage in the future for him and for that other person

leehan: 8 of pentacles + 7 of pentacles + 3 of pentacles + 5 of pentacles + 5 of cups + queen of swords + 5 of swords in the end + page of cups on the bottom

he loves to flirt lol. i think he might be the type of guy to playfully flirt back with fans. same as jaehyun, whenever he thinks about the fans, he has such a genuine and even sort of naive affection and love that he can't help but want to show it or retribute what he receives from them. also, that action of mirroring fans’ behaviors like flirting back with them is not forced or anything, even if it's still his work, he does it because he feels like it. however, even though it's flirting, there's no emotional space for anything romantic towards a fan, and he has that as a statement for himself. so whenever he flirts, he gets this immediate regret because he thinks he's playing the fan even though it wasn't his intention. he always thinks things like wait what if they take it seriously, i thought we were just playing around, did i say too much afterwards. i won't say it's a definitive mindset like oh no he won't ever date a fan but currently he doesn't have any interest in investing in one romantically and doesn't think he should if i'm being honest

taesan: 8 of swords + the fool + ace of swords + 5 of swords + 5 of pentacles + 6 of swords + strength in the end + the high priestess on the bottom

he also probably likes to joke around about dating with fans, flirt a little bit very subtly but nothing serious or that he truly means because getting involved with one is definitely a no for him, he doesn't even allow himself to contemplate it or to think maybe one day. that doesn't mean he doesn't find any fan attractive, the strength is saying that it's common for him to find someone beautiful but to be honest it could be the most beautiful girl, he'd still be emotionally distant and not even hold on to it too much because for him it has to do with morals and pre-established mindsets he has, he thinks no this won't be good in any circumstance, there's no possibility, so he doesn't even put circumstances in question

woonhak: the emperor + 3 of swords + 10 of wands + 10 of swords + queen of cups + 8 of cups + the wheel of fortune in the end + the sun on the bottom

he has a strong pre-established mentality too that would be very hard to contradict because he takes it as a serious fact that he can't date a fan, however, for him it's a bit harder because he does contemplate it and has thought about it before. he's curious on this matter because just like the previous members, he has a deep appreciation for fans and nurtures such a loving feeling for them that he can't help but wonder how it would be like to be with someone he likes that much and that likes him back in such a fierce way. however, for him it's frustrating because he knows it could never happen, and that's because he believes so many bad things can come from dating a fan, and things that could definitely affect his career and future, so he prefers to ignore that desire in order to not threaten his future well-being. it's also possible that he's reminded about it a lot, people taught him that. however, i don't think it's a definite case scenario, the wheel of fortune is saying that his answer could change depending on the person and circumstances

sungho: 3 of wands + the judgement + the hierophant + 2 of wands + queen of pentacles + the world + page of cups in the end + 2 of swords on the bottom

very positive answer, so yes, that doesn't mean he's open to date or have any type of personal relationship with any fan that shows interest in him, it depends a lot. he won't even make a careless decision that could threaten his career or anything like that, he would analyze the situation, the person and then take the next step. his answer will depend on the circumstances because for him it would depend if he's able to fully get to know that person without putting himself in risky situations, if that person is someone with good morals and that won't try to stab him in the back later, if that person really gets to know him without other types of interests, if he likes them, if they're willing to follow certain rules for him to feel safer. if he gets a positive answer for all of these depends questions, then it would be a total yes and he'd be willing to nurture a loving relationship with them cute

riwoo: the hierophant + 2 of wands + 6 of wands + 7 of cups + the devil + knight of cups + knight of swords in the end + 9 of cups on the bottom

i guess it would also be a maybe. he has some doubts about what he truly considers unacceptable or bad. he thinks that the term fans includes so many people that don't have the same personality, behavior and mindsets, so i guess for him to give a certain answer it would have to be about a specific person. however, from what i can see here, he definitely has thought about it and would consider even though he knows that it could be a risky decision and probably a bad one in other people's eyes lol, but he's got strong pride and could be even a bit stubborn because he's not the type of person to follow someone else's decisions without questioning them himself and taking his own conclusions. also, he could be someone a bit impulsive lol so if there's an opportunity that is seen by him as a good one, he will take it. it's possible that he already had some type of relationship with a fan before, but i'd have to do another reading to find out