More Society of Gentlemen replies under the cut. @secretagentofcaos
secretagentofcaos replied to your post:
"the calm of the storm of them" —> just kill me dead already
secretagentofcaos replied to your post:
"Dominic figuring out ways for them to have non-kinky sex that still works for him (this is not as difficult as he thought it would be, which leads to a bit of a guilt spiral about Richard" -> this hurts more than it should, but their incompatibility wasn’t just about the kink. Dominic needs a counterpoint, Richard needs a partner. They are better suited to be friends than lovers and that’s just one of life's great injustices because of all the years of pain and regret.
"Silas figuring out kinky things he enjoys because of their kinkiness. (I tend to get the impression that he is fairly neutral about a lot of the kink (…)" -> yes! Silas isn’t into kink for its own sake. He enjoys it because it’s sex with Dominic and it really, really works for Dom, but at first he could do without the kink. But he grows to enjoy the sense of power & control, of learning to read Dom's reactions, of being able to give to Dom what no one else can whilst keeping him safe. 1/2
And now I have the mental image of Silas leaving the knife on the nightstand when he wants to play rather than wait for Dom to give a sign and yes, it’d be glorious. And it’d make Dom melt in the spot. He’d be free to ignore the knife, put it away if he’s not in the mood, but if he stays quiet, then he's in Silas' hands for whatever he wants to do with him for the night. 2/2
Yes, exactly. As I said to @inclineto (has that reply posted yet? idk idk), Dominic’s able to talk himself out of the guilt spiral without overly much angst, but the thought definitely occurs; one can only hope that, post-Silas and post-David, they’re able to unbury themselves from all the regret and recrimination, self- and otherwise, and fully restore their friendship as it could be, unhindered by all the various hang-ups.
A resounding yes--I love the idea of Silas also sort of quietly figuring out his own thing while they figure out Dominic’s thing(s). And Dominic wanting to please him on his own terms, and not only Dominic’s, and Silas dismissing the either/or of that but also thinking more about what he specifically wants. (That scene in the book is unsurprisingly one of my very favorites, and I want so much more on that theme.) I get the general feeling that Silas is very much a ‘take your pleasures where you can’ sort of person, and while he’s had plenty of decent sex in his life has never really thought in specifics about what it is he wants.
Um, that’s a GREAT mental image, A+.