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Value doesn't beg.
im not homophobic i like gay people even the annoying ones even me
im extremely late but happy mental health awareness month
in progress --
Let’s edit your story
We grow in connection with others. Everyone needs to hear that other person’s voice saying, I believe in you. I can see possibilities that you might not see quite yet. I imagine that something different can happen, in some form or another. In therapy we say, Let’s edit your story.
~ Lori Gottlieb, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed. (Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, April 2, 2019)
Will also talked about how it is important for us to view self love as self discipline. it is about how our actions in the present time have an effect on how we feel in the future. he said self discipline is “to forgo immediate pleasure for the exchange of long term self respect.” lets sit with that for a while and think about all the little things we do (or don’t do) in a day that take away from our feeling good about ourselves. it is so easy to give advice to others, because we feel we are coming from a place of love and wanting to see them do better and succeed in life... but really it is also because we feel the lack of control over our own situation. you are the player and the coach both. you are the will to work and you are your own cheerleader in life. you can’t not root for yourself. you just can’t. it redefines the meaning of being gentle with yourself, with your heart. it is to be mindful for how you feel and take action that would prevent your heart from hurting itself, to let go of habits that are not nurturing to your growth. saying to yourself, i know you want to mindlessly scroll and procrastinate to avoid facing the real world, but if you do that you're not going to feel good about yourself. i love you too much to let you do that. if you wanna be happy you have to love yourself and you have to discipline your behavior. the road to sustained happiness is through disciplining your behavior.
Paraphrasing, but that was the gist of it.
When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you.~Lao Tzu
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2018 = The Year of ‘Self Love’
2018 is the year of self-love, self-realization and healthy improvements to better ourselves. But these improvements don't appear out of thin air and we don't simultaneously wake up in the middle of the night an all-in-all changed person (at least I never have). Instead, think of self-work as a constant journey that will not only benefit and improve you're moral but also encourage others around you to soon follow suit. Here are a few quotes I've collected help sum up my journey- that will hopefully encourage you to start yours.
“Do not be distracted by the criticism of others- remember that the only taste of success some people get is by taking a bit out of you.”
“If it makes you feel broken in any way, you need to end it before it ends you”
“Apologizing doesn't always mean you're wrong and the other person is right, it means you value your relationship more than your ego”
“We can only attract the same kind of frequency we put out of ourselves”
“Going back to an old relationship is like reading your favourite book and expecting a different ending to happen”
“Never say mean words out of anger. Your anger will pass. But your mean words can scar a person for life so use kind words or be silent”
“Compliment people- but without downgrading, mocking or comparing with others.”
With love,
A
Xox
