#sensitive guy

[elenathrais]

Ever since Brennan announced he was leaving Dropout, I couldn't shake the feeling there was something familiar about it. And then it hit me...

He's Sensitive Guy from Bedazzled. Please tell me someone else sees this.

[visu-alley]

Ravenclaw Male INFP with Borzoi Patronus Aesthetic

[dd-is-my-guiltypleasure]

Q: So it must have been traumatic when your daughter was so ill last year. A: You know, right after her spinal tap was clear and everyone breathed a sigh of relief, David went around the corner from the hospital and put a tattoo of her name on his ankle. He was so altered by this experience he had to go out and physically mark it.

Tea Leoni, 2001

[dubiousnoise]

Snag: sensitive neo apocalyptic guy

[pattyg1992]

Being a Sensitive Person

I’ve always been a highly sensitive person. It’s practically who I am. It definitely has it’s ups and downs. For one thing its given me empathy for people. All those who are different or considered outsiders. Even people who may not deserve empathy. I’m more aware of my surroundings and the people in it. I tend to observe a lot of different things. I feel more deeply. Anything from a movie, to music, or even a beautiful sunset or the night sky can make me feel powerful emotions or go into deep thought.

Being sensitive is more than a personality trait, it can also apply to you physically. I’m more sensitive to sounds, smell, taste, and touch. It can be good or bad depending on the situation. And there are definitely drawbacks. I use to think being sensitive was full of negatives. For one thing I tend to want to trust people more, which has hurt me in the past. I get my feelings hurt easily. Even the smallest of rebukes can make me withdraw, think badly of myself and wonder if someone dislikes me or not. 

To give an example of how sensitive I can be, when I was a kid I was upset when I worm I was playing with died. Honestly, I can laugh about it now but even today, if I saw a bug in the house, I’ll try to capture it and take it outside over killing it. That’s not to say I won’t kill a bug when I come across one (or even get my dog to eat it), but sometimes I feel bad killing it. A fly sitting on my bedroom windows trying to escape, I’ll try to help it out by opening the window or finally give in and kill it if it refuses to leave.

I know right? It’s not an attractive element. A guy being so sensitive and emotional but it’s who I am. I’m really starting to value that and I love seeing it in others.

Things that most people shake off easily still lingers years later, and can still feel as fresh now as it was a few years ago. I’ve held on to a lot of anger and resentment over the years. The thing is most have no idea I’m sensitive or feel so deeply because I rarely express it. If someone hurts my feelings I rarely address it because I know how tiring it can be having to tiptoe around the feelings of others. At the same time, I never let my feelings be validated, preferring to keep it to myself and writing it off as an overreaction (even when its not).

I avoid most people for this reason because I”m afraid of being hurt but I’ve been more outgoing lately. For one thing I’ve got into online dating which in itself has the potential of hurt feelings. People are usually more blunt and dismissive online. Usually when talking to people online I end the conversation if the person becomes argumentative or rude.

 Depending on who you ask being sensitive can be a blessing and a curse but I see it as both now. 

[musicalterna]

Lista 2017

35. Baio - Sensitive Guy

https://open.spotify.com/track/5jYxdqaY8vuNaePIuTLQZB

[tescoprawnsandwich]

my man who’s not my man: i’m sorry for giving you false hope, i don’t want anything

also my man who’s not my man: *sits in the canteen with a group of people and spends the vast majority of his time staring at my table*

[tescoprawnsandwich]

so anyway, i was talking about how excited i was that kate bush was all over my top played playlist on spotify n my crush was p much like “ah yes, that kate moss person” like yeah, sure jan