Disabled people are the experts on our bodies and should be trusted to decide what is best for us. But ALSO, I have spent approaching 40 years in aggressively scent-free environments, because my mama and I are not STUPID and wish to stay alive, and I regularly forget that various things HAVE perfumed options. Even when those items are perfumed 90% of the time.
"Of COURSE you can light a candle, I love fire!"
"Oh, can you throw my sweater in with the other clothes that got muddy? It's cold out and I'd like to wear it home."
"I'm gonna go over and play with those long sticks in the pretty holder. Your knickknacks are so PRETTY!"
So please, if you know your friends and they are as easily distracted from their own health as I am, ask them if they WANT you to step in before they murder themselves via easily avoided dangers. The amount of times I have had to choose between
having my brain shut down from fumes that I accidentally okayed, and
awkwardly telling someone that actually all their work needs to be undone because I forgot that people like pretty smells
is an unpleasantly high number.












