Serious Serpent Song question:
Is it too much for a straight man to have the only 2 romance plots in his graphic novel series be lesbian ones?
To clarify, so far only 1 of the romances is integral to its character's storylines. The other is underlying, subplot at best.
Despite being a straight man, my biggest problem is that I barely know diddly shit about heterosexual relationships. I've never had one, and a majority of my friends are LGBT+. At this point i've spent more time among the LGBT+ community than anything else, and I'm noticing a trend where I default to it in my fiction.
I've found the big secret of LGBT+ romance has always been that it's essentially the same as hetero romance, (Gasp! Who knew?!) with all the same complexities and nuances.
But from the reader's point of view, what business do I have making it such a huge part of my fiction? While LGBT+ representation is sorely needed in comics, I feel like its often problematic when its constantly through a Straight White Male lens. Not to say there aren't creators who've pulled it off, but oftentimes it'll have an exploitative or fetishistic intent behind it.
If I do it right, ideally the results will speak for themselves, but on the surface it doesn't look quite right. I don't think I have any hetero characters yet, and the only romance that'll receive real attention in the plot so far is a lesbian one. And I know how it looks to have a straight dude write a story with a prominent lesbian couple, let alone two.
I think that as far as romance plots go, it isn't what the overall story is 'about', and at the end of the day, Serpent Song won't suffer from having zero romance plots (the main lesbian plot in question is not the main character's). I actually appreciate stories that have the guts to get rid of romance plots entirely, and part of me wants to see that.
But I'm at the point in writing two characters who either are or aren't going to derive a lot of their development from this plot, and I feel like that decision needs to be made before I bulldoze ahead.
Should I eliminate all these plots altogether, or should I just stick with what I'm familiar with and not worry about how it'll look?
Honestly, this story's romance plots are gonna be either solely LGBT+ , or nothing at all. I'm not interested in heterosexual plot lines in my fiction, largely because they've been ubiquitous since the dawn of time, but also because I'm so woefully unfamiliar with them. As weird as it is, writing about heterosexual relationships always feels like I'm bullshitting quite a bit of it. 'Traditional' ideals of masculinity and femininity are so incredibly absent from the lives of myself and basically everyone I know.
I realize that this isn't so much me worrying about whether I'll pull it off, but rather how it'll LOOK to the average reader. I know ideally I should just go with what comes naturally to me, but this is something that I desperately don't want to fuck up...
And boy howdy, this is something that A LOT of straight male creators have fucked up.
The graphic novel in question, seen here.