#shitty behaviour

[ewanmitchellcrumbs]

A word to the wise, no one fan page is superior to any other in fandom, no matter the following size, no matter the platform, no matter what the person running it may think. This is especially true when said fan page resorts to misogyny and tearing down the appearance/make-up of others in order to elevate themselves and their own agenda. Your point loses all of its weight when it’s both mean spirited and mired in hypocrisy.

Be mindful of who you follow and who you place upon a pedestal. People only have as much power as you allow them.

[morning-frostie]

I cannot explain in words how much joy Castiel has given me, just as a character. I relate to him so much. Every single time I see ‘Misha Collins’ at the start of an episode my heart jumps and I start screaming into the void. Scenes featuring him play over and over in my head 24/7. I am struggling so much right now, but I know that Castiel and Supernatural as a whole will always be there for me when I’m upset. He has given me so much happiness in such a difficult time and I will be forever grateful for Misha Collins and all the script writers of spn.

The reason I’m saying all this is because I want to discuss how fucking horrible it is to hate on someone for loving a character. A character that they love possibly more than anything else in this world, a character that could have given them the will to continue on and not commit fucking suicide. So I think it’s incredibly shitty when people say crap like “yeah we get it, shut up”, “no one cares” and “calm down, they’re not that cool.” Like, what the actual fuck.

You’ve essentially just told someone that their comfort character, the thing that could be SAVING THEIR FUCKING LIFE RIGHT NOW, is unimportant and that they’re ridiculous and childish for being excited about them, and by extension that they’re being ridiculous and childish for liking the character/media. I have experience with this, and for fuck’s sake please don’t do or say anything to that effect to ANYONE, no matter how ‘annoying’ they’re being, no matter how tired you are and no matter how bored you are of hearing about your friend’s hyper focus.

Because, yeah, I get it. It can be annoying sometimes, it can be tiring, and it can be fucking boring, but guess what. This character is their everything at the moment, and they want to tell their friends about it because sharing hyper focuses and fixations with someone you love is the best feeling ever. And if you can’t understand that, please get a fucking clue and cure your ignorance, whether your friend is neurodivergent or not.

And if you really, truly cannot deal with them at that moment, just say ‘Hey, I’m really sorry but I’m doing something right now. Can you tell me all about this later?’ Boom. It’s that simple, that’s all you need to do.

So please, please remember this post whenever your friend is ranting to you and you’re feeling frustrated. Please, please take into consideration that they will remember anything negative you say, and they will take all of it to heart. Take it from someone who’s friends and family frequently do the same to him, it fucking sucks, and if I didn’t have other fucking amazing friends who understand what it’s like to love a show/character/book/whatever so much it physically hurts, then my mental state would be twice as bad as it is now, and it’s already pretty fucking bad.

So please, listen to me, and fucking stop.

[ankford]

A surprising amount of people think not specifying a return date means they can keep whatever I’m lending them indefinitely. I have lost several movies or video games this way. 

These aren’t the same people or even people who knew each other. These are several completely unrelated people, completely independent of each other over my entire 28 years of life.

[curlykoalas]

Had a hella rude experience with the LFG on Overwatch

So there's 1 healer spot and 1 dps, I take the dps role and waiting for someone else to join. They're American and so they're just chatting away until the girl who already picked healer role piped up and said "I don't know why this person has picked dps" meaning me ofc. They're whole mindset was that cause most of my hours are on Mercy/Moira I have to play healer and I tried saying that my third most played hero is Sombra and that I have 26 hours on her. "Quick play doesn't count" I only have 2 hours on Sombra in comp because I'm constantly having to play healer. So I got kicked from the group because I wanted to get hours up on a hero that wasn't a fucking healer.

[thisdiscontentedwinter]

I feel like maybe the “pretending to come out as gay” should have more of an impact there….not in the “hahah Tyler you’re so hilarious,” way but the legitimately hurting people way…because he did. He hurt LGBTQA+ people for what he considered a joke. We’re just going to overlook that?! Playing a bisexual character does not erase that experience…not even a little.

DW: 

They mentioned it in the headline, which I think was probably their way of getting the dig in, because so many other outlets didn’t mention it at all. 

But yeah, it was a shitty thing for someone with a large teen fanbase to do. Well, it’s a shitty thing for anyone to do, but particularly someone with a lot of vulnerable teens looking up to them. 

Can you imagine what it must have felt like for a young person who was questioning their sexuality, or wondering if they could come out? They must have felt so fucking validated for a moment there, only to have it all ripped away when it turned out their identity had been used as nothing more than a cheap joke. 

Disgusting. 

[hotbee]

Hi, everybody.

Mod Gray and I were told tonight by Bunbun54183 (I love you, friend.) that there was a kid (I’m going to call them a kid because I hope no adult is this pathetic and terrible to do this) was saying this in town.There was actually more terrible stuff that they said but I couldn’t post them because I had to post the pictures with my phone. 

I don’t care how old the person behind this is but it makes me feel terrible that people like this exist and are allowed to spread their hate in animal jam. PLEASE report utzqaz101 and tell us if you see anyone saying something similar to this.

It looks like this isn’t this persons main so they think they can get away with spouting their awful opinions without consequence, I hope people like this get their mains banned. I wish that I didn’t share a website with a person like this.

Mod Gray was told about this before me and attempted to email ajhq about this and received an automated email back,

So, please report this person. 

[werewolveslovewords]

Debating writing about some shitty things I did when I was very mentally ill. Not sure if I can get over the shame enough to let people read it though. I said and did some really shitty things. I know I was ill but it’s really doesn’t make what I did okay.

[coloured-insanity]

There’s no words right now for how pissed off I am at you