DATING SUPER JUNIOR HEADCANON A⇴Z ⇴ Choi Siwon
A ⇴ AFFECTION
Siwon is very affectionate with you, it always comes with the utmost respect and love. He’ll always try and have a hold of your hand, so he knows that you’re safe, but also so you know that he’s there. He’s very protective of you and will always judge a situation to know how to treat you.
B ⇴ BEFORE DATING
As soon as you smiled at him as you passed by in the coffee store, he knew he had to go over and introduce himself to you. You thought he was just being friendly, but as he got talking to you, he couldn’t help but be interested in the things that you said. As you stood up to leave, he handed you his number and made sure to try and meet up with you again.
C ⇴ CONFESSION
After a few meetings, Siwon knew that he liked you as more than just someone in the coffee store. He’d asked you if you were free earlier in the day to catch up, but rather than coffee, he’d invited you to his favourite restaurant. When he told you the reason why he’d bought to the restaurant that night, you couldn’t help but smile, sitting back as he told you exactly how he felt about you before letting him know you felt the same.
D ⇴ DATES
Every date with Siwon was special, he always tried to outdo the last date and surprise you again and again. The cost didn’t matter, he loved to spoil you and show you all the fancy things in the city. But he was also humble, some nights, a pizza, a movie, and the sofa were all he needed. Being around you was what he treasured the most on your dates, as nice as it was to go out and make all these fancy memories, memories could easily be made in the comfort of your own home, with just the two of you and nothing else.
E ⇴ EXPERIENCE
He’d had a few brief relationships that he always kept private but being with you was his first long term relationship. He was very secretive of the two of you being together as he knew exactly how the media could be. He was of an age where he was beginning to seriously think about settling down, and he didn’t want anything to get in the way of that with you. With you, he was able to find a good balance between everything he did at work, but also being able to come home to someone being there waiting for him.
F ⇴ FIGHTING
Just like Leeteuk, he was bit of a peacemaker within the group, he hated arguments more than anything, he’d do whatever it took to prevent one from happening. If he does feel like he’s getting angry, he becomes very conscious of his words and how he speaks to you, he’ll try hard to explain how he feels without losing his cool and raising his voice at you. As much as he dreams of having the perfect relationship and always being the perfect gentleman, he knows it’s not possible, so instead he tries hard to limit the impact of an argument or a disagreement.
G ⇴ GETTING TO KNOW HIS FAMILY
He was a very family orientated person; it was so important to him that you got on with his family. Seeing how close he was with your family intimidated you greatly, Siwon knew you were nervous, and reassured you all the time. When you finally met them, they were all so keen to meet the girl that had stolen his heart.
H ⇴ HOME
Siwon was quite keen to move you into his house quite quickly into your relationship, he enjoyed your company, and there was no point hanging around when he knew what he wanted. It definitely took you by surprise when he first suggested it, but as you thought about it, it seemed like the perfect idea for you both.
I ⇴ “I LOVE YOU”
He’d always been very open with his feelings, and realising he was in love with you was no different. As the two of you laid one night after spending the evening at his place, he couldn’t help but whisper the words down to you as you began to fall asleep against his chest. You were a little too sleepy to realise what he’d said, simply humming in response.
J ⇴ JEALOUSY
It was a feeling he never really experienced, he was very self-assured and relaxed in your relationship, seeing you speak to someone else or mess around never really phased him. On the very rare occasions that he did feel jealous, he’d subtly pull you to one side so that he didn’t make a scene and mention to you how he was feeling. Once you knew, you’d quickly include him in whatever it was you were doing and stand a little bit closer to his side just to make sure that he felt reassured and relaxed about everything.
K ⇴ KIDS
It’s well known that Siwon loves his family and wants to start a family of his own. When he met you, he couldn’t help but soon begin to think about having children in the future. It was something he was always open with you about, and even though the two of you decided not to pressurise the situation too much, if it happened, it was definitely going to be something that you were both happy about.














