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This a a reminder to not fall victim to the sunk-cost fallacy. Just because you invested time and energy into something, does not mean you should indefinitely waste more time and energy on it, if you decide it’s not what you want anymore. This goes for anything, from books, to relationships, to jobs, to hobbies, etc.
If it’s not serving you anymore, move on.
SUNK COST
(you could trust him to gamble your life savings. not to win anything but just that he'd do it)
FUN FACTS ABOUT THEM!! - they actively radiate bad luck. just look at the sod. - their oxygen bombs bombs make great party favors. - the wooden plank around their neck i learned is called a "yoke", its the thing that farmers use to hook their cattle to a plow. i did not know that until after making this dude - their eye is actually a 3D sphere!! - what they hold is nothing of monetary value.
Meeting breeders at shows and stuff now is so weird because people obvs don't know me, they maybe remember troj from when i started showing her a couple of years ago, so'll be like haha nice to meet you yeah im pretty new. i've also been following your work for 18 years. (i dont say the latter our loud.)
Well, friends, I finally posted my 6th Jedtavius fic. It's not my favorite thing that I've written, but it's done! Now I can focus on writing the two other fics I have in progress. [tbh I'm probably going to delete this fic later because I really don't like it... ok, edited to say thanks to @cherry-wavesz, @doodlemothy, @courtneysartacc, @un-sanity, @fastestb-tchalive, and anyone I forgot to mention for encouraging me not to delete anything I've written 💕]
https://archiveofourown.org/works/85585306
Baela never kissing Jace despite being betrothed for all of season 2 and part of the other 2 season of hotd and them kissing Alyn within a few episodes of them having a conversation is racist actual. I will elaborate if anyone wants to hear it.
MASTERLIST - FANFIC & RECS
UPDATED 2/15/2026
REC LISTS: 115 Tomarrymort Fic Recs (Part Two)
LONGFICS (75k+ PLANNED)
a pound of flesh - (34,405 WIP), LVHP, 18+, WHUMP
the full length of the soul - (30k WIP), TMRHP, 18+, OMEGAVERSE
sunk cost fallacy - (104,509 WIP), 18+, SAME AGE TOMARRY
promo tiktok for scf
fanart for scf by @Donatellablack - 1, 2, 3, 4, TIKTOK, TIKTOK2
MULTI-CHAPTER FICS (<75k PLANNED):
from what i've tasted of desire (41K DONE) - T RATED, YEARNING
The Word of Your Body (20k DONE) - SWITCH, 18+, ANGST
baby, turn the bright lights on (37,116 WIP) - LVHP, M, ZOMBIE AU
fanart for bright lights by sherbet-powder
fanart for bright lights by @DonatellaBlack(twt) + TIKTOK!!!
ONE SHOTS/COLLECTIONS:
CONQUER (7,638) - HPLV (TOP HARRY), 18+, ANGST
a pale horse (7,043) - LVHP, 18+, NONCON/TENTACLES
inhibit (11,013) - LVHP, 18+, TRANS HARRY
A Sunny Afternoon (5,320) - LVHP, 18+, ZOMBIE PORN
pinky promise (579) - tomarry, gen, PURGEFIC
a collar of iron - (5000), LVHP, 18+, medieval fantasy, omegaverse
the summer of love - (10000) tmrhp, marriage law, crack
HARRYMORT IN EVERY UNIVERSE SERIES*:
ECLIPSE - M/F, t4t, based on 'Rose in Chains' by Julie Soto WIP
MANACLED FIC SOMETIME IDK
(*series where i take tradpub dramione novels and write harrymort featuring the renamed characters)
NEW SET IS UP!!!!
tracklist and very important tumblr-exclusive author notes below the cut!
You’re Allowed to Lose Interest—Even If You’ve Poured Time Into It
At some point, we all outgrow something we once loved. Maybe it’s a hobby, a community, a show, or a career path. You used to be all in—spending time, energy, maybe even money—but now? Not so much.
The problem is, we convince ourselves we have to stay interested because we’ve already put in so much effort. (I'm lookin' at you, knitting) That’s the sunk cost fallacy talking, and it’s a load of crap.
"Marie Kondo" Your Interests
Marie Kondo says to get rid of things that don’t spark joy. Great advice for cleaning out your junk drawer or closet (ratty old hoodies, you no longer spark joy), but even better advice for your time and energy. If something no longer excites you, you don’t have to keep forcing it. You’re not obligated to stay interested in something forever just because you once were.
Sunk Costs Are Sunk—Let Them Go
The sunk cost fallacy is that little asshole voice whispering, But I’ve already spent years on this. I can’t just quit now! Except, yes, you can. Just because you’ve put time or money into something doesn’t mean you owe it a lifetime commitment. The only thing that matters is whether it still adds value to your life now. If it doesn’t, cut your losses and move on.
And yeah, we’ve all heard “Nobody likes a quitter.” But let’s be honest- nobody likes a miserable, burned-out jackwagon clinging to something out of sheer stubbornness, either. Quitting isn’t failure. It’s just refusing to keep throwing good time after bad.
Stop Making Up Dramas to Fill the Void
Here’s another thing I’ve noticed: When a steady source of content or engagement dries up—whether it’s a creator going silent, a group fizzling out, or a passion just fading—people lose their gotdamm minds. Instead of accepting the quiet, they start making up stories. And not just any stories—escalating, over-the-top, apocalyptic stories.
Did they disappear because of a scandal? Was there a secret feud? Is something awful happening behind the scenes? MIND CONTROL??!
No. Sometimes, things just stop. People move on. Not everything needs a grand conspiracy behind it. But because silence makes us uncomfortable, we scramble to fill it—even if that means manufacturing a crisis.
You don’t have to do that. You don’t have to buy into it, either. If something fades away, let it. If someone stops posting or participating, maybe they just had other shit to do. It’s not always a mystery to solve.
You’re Allowed to Change
Interests aren’t life sentences. You can be obsessed with something for years and then wake up one day and realize you just… don’t care anymore. And that’s fine. You can always pick it back up later, or not (still lookin at you, knitting). Either way, you don’t owe anyone (including past you) an explanation.
So if something no longer excites you, don’t force it. Just move tf on. There’s something better waiting on the other side of that empty space.
