the horrific rape and beating of a 5 year old black girl has reached mainstream media and like clockwork people are already using her to spread radfem rhetoric and make advertiser friendly content on tiktok and instagram reels saying that she was “🍇’d”
instead of engaging with these pricks who are exploiting her trauma for personal gain, here’s how you can personally support both her and her mother:
On September 13, 2025, my daughter resided at a trusted family member's residence around the are… Antavia Kennibrew needs your support for J
this child needs as much support as she can possibly get. she is traumatized beyond belief and suicidal. again, she is merely 5 years old. please do whatever you can to remind her that she is loved and that her life matters.
EDIT:
there was some information i got incorrect in the original version of this post. she is NOT autistic. i should have done further research before claiming so. i sincerely apologize.
also, please do not reblog this post with tags wishing rape upon the children responsible for this. that should go without saying. wishing rape upon any child is genuinely disgusting behavior no matter who the child is or what they’ve done. you are not avenging victims or making survivors’ lives better by saying such things. encouraging sexual violence against kids for any reason is deplorable and ultimately continues the cycle of abuse. think before you speak.
Answer: Abusers don’t respect boundaries. Saying no often leads to more manipulation, guilt-tripping, or even threats. It's not about simply refusing—it's about survival in a situation where your choices are controlled by fear.
Hey, I know this is very different from what I usually post but this is very urgent and serious.
Please read this whole post and consider reblogging.
Heavy trigger warning for mentions of abuse and homelessness
My friend, @fooziboom, a disabled ex-foster kid, has been trying to escape an abusive cultish household for years and finally has a chance at escaping this June.
Due to SSI limitations she cannot receive donations but needs help getting furniture for her first move in with a friend and eventually maybe her own apartment, therefore she's put together an amazon wishlist in hopes to get some help and get a lot less stress off her shoulders.
I've known her for a little under two years, and in only those two years, the things I've seen and heard her family do to her and the others is fucking horrifying, I have a THREE HOUR LONG audio recording of one of her family members abusing her cousin from a VC that we had to cut short, but I kept recording for her to have evidence. And not only do the cops do nothing, but calling the cops puts my friend in serious danger as the rest of the family will likely kick her out with no place for her to go or potentially worse. With her being disabled, the fact she lives quite far from any shelters that can take her in, as well as it being the middle of winter, this CANNOT happen.
And this is just the tip of the iceberg of how awful and depraved her family is and it only seems to be getting worse. I cannot stress enough just how much danger she is in staying in that house. She really needs all the help she can get.
If you want to help and can financially do so without putting yourself in a bad spot, the link to her amazon wishlist is above and has all the furniture and utensils she's looking to get.
If you cannot financially help, don't worry, that's fine, we understand the economic state of the world right now is hard, but PLEASE share this post.
I am the second of four sisters. Growing up, there was no safe adult to protect us. We survived years of childhood sexual, emotional, and physical abuse, and like many survivors, we learned very young that staying quiet was often safer than speaking up.
For a long time, survival was our focus. We grew up, built lives for ourselves, and did our best to create the safety we never had as children. I spent years trying to be the person my sisters needed because no one else stepped in.
But surviving is not the same as receiving justice.
Last year, my younger sister and I made the difficult decision to break our silence and report what happened. After more than a year and a half of waiting, our criminal case is finally moving forward.
The legal system is overwhelmed, and while resources exist, our case needs more support than is currently available. We are trying to raise $16,000 to hire a private attorney who can help us prepare, navigate the process, and ensure our case receives the care and attention it deserves.
This is not just about us. It is about finally being heard. It is about standing up for the children we once were and refusing to let what happened remain hidden.
Asking for help does not come naturally to us. We have carried this alone for a very long time.
If you are able to donate, thank you from the bottom of my heart. If you cannot donate, please consider reblogging. A single share could help this reach someone who can.
I understand that people are cautious with online fundraisers, and I completely respect that. If you have respectful questions, I am happy to answer what I can while protecting the privacy and safety of those involved. I am also willing to provide appropriate verification to moderators if requested.
Thank you for reading.💕
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In an unimaginable act of violence, Shannda lost her life, leaving behind her loving husband, her two children and students who loved her.
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Abel was only 12 years old when his life was suddenly and unfairly cut short. He was a respectful and kind young man who loved his family. He was active in the community playing soccer, around the neighbourhood and he loved going to school.
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Organized by TRPAC and TR Mayor & Council, this is the official link to help the community as a whole.
The Fund has been created to provide sustained, community-guided support in the months and years ahead. Initiatives and programs will be shaped by local leadership to meet evolving needs and ensure resources are directed where they are most needed.
• You feel like you're in a constant freeze state around them.
• Avoiding conflict out of fear of their reaction.
• Every interaction feels like a minefield—like walking on eggshells.
• You frequently and unnecessary apologise, even for trivial matters.
• Feeling chronically sad, anxious, or depressed in the relationship.
• You blame yourself for their behavior and constantly wonder what you did wrong.
• They switch personalities—acting loving in front of others but being cruel in private.
• Extreme highs and lows—periods of intense affection (love bombing) followed by cruelty or neglect, keeping you trapped in an emotional rollercoaster.
• Gaslighting—making you doubt your reality or experiences.
• Patronizing, name-calling, belittling your accomplishments, or putting you down in front of others.
• Mocking your past traumas (e.g., saying you deserved it).
• Blaming you for everything that goes wrong.
• Telling you to make a choice, but lashing out if they don’t like your decision.
• Invalidating your feelings or disregarding them when you express distress.
• You feel like they love your looks or domestic labor, but not your personality.
• Lashing out in public and private spaces.
• Punishing you with silent treatment or withholding affection.
• You think you are making yourself smaller just to keep them happy
Isolation & Control
• Isolating you from friends, family, and support systems.
• Monitoring your devices, social media, or whereabouts.
• Getting mad if you don’t respond to texts immediately.
• Constantly calling and messaging, then getting mad at you for not replying fast enough.
• Following you when you go out or insisting on always providing transportation.
• Enforcing strict routines, dictating how you manage work, household tasks, childcare, or leisure time.
• Controlling finances, withholding money, or creating debt in your name.
Physical & Sexual Abuse
• Unwanted physical touch, and they don’t stop when you tell them to.
• Physical aggression—gripping your wrist too hard, biting you, throwing objects at you (even if it’s "not a punch or slap").
• Driving erratically when you're with them.
• Coercing you into sex or making you feel obligated.
Threats & Fear Tactics
• Threatening to leave you to keep you compliant.
• Threatening suicide if you try to leave.
• Throwing, kicking, or hitting objects in anger.
Health & Stress-Related Signs
• Chronic pain, tension, fatigue, and muscle knots due to stress.
How to Leave an Abusive Relationship (Especially When Living Together)
Leaving an abusive relationship is dangerous and difficult, especially when living with the abuser. Planning ahead is crucial.
1. Preparing to Leave Safely
• Find a safe place (friend, family, shelter, or domestic violence refuge).
• Confide in someone you trust and establish a code word for emergencies.
• Pack an emergency bag (ID, money, keys, meds, important documents, clothes, burner phone if needed).
• Save money discreetly if the abuser controls finances.
• Plan your exit carefully—leave when they’re out or asleep, and arrange transportation.
• Gather evidence (texts, photos, emails, journal entries) in case you need legal protection.
• Consider a restraining order for safety and legal protection.
• Contact organization for helping victims of domestic violence in your country
2. Staying in the Home & Removing the Abuser
If leaving isn’t an option, you may be able to legally remove the abuser:
• File for a restraining order to force them to leave.
• Call the police if you are in danger.
• Change locks and improve security once they’re gone.
• Inform trusted neighbors, friends, or workplace security for extra protection.
If you recognize these signs, know that you're not alone. Abuse can be difficult to identify, especially when it doesn’t look the way we expect. If you think something feels wrong, trust yourself.
If you have more signs to add, feel free to share. Raising awareness can help others recognize what they’re going through.
