#syscourse adjacent

[grace-the-stars]

you can't be pro endo anti rq...endos are rq...

dry ass take, try again anon /silly

fr tho, endos arent and never will be radq. radq deals with radical queerness.

systemhood is not inherently queer.

plus, we have trauma from the radq community. we dont care about harmless transids or paras, but the way the radq community is majorly pro/neu consent is fucking disgusting.

so yeah, no, endos arent radq.

[states-system]

I wanna talk to neuroscientists right now.

[mamechiin]

i don't really have a problem with endos i just feel like a lot of them tend to be a bit overly cautious of pwCDDs. i understand from a syscourse perspective, i guess, but we're just mentally ill people the same as with any other disorder.

like, i get the feeling of being cautious, but also like. it rubs me the wrong way because you probably wouldn't be the same when it comes to any other disorder.

[snezhnayan-nights]

"your doctor knows better than you" are you a doctor. how can i trust you. i don't. stop.

please shut up and stop acting like your insensitive and misinforming opinions as gospel.

i don't like you.

[quoigenicfromhell]

This isn't necessarily about any one argument but like man. Man! 'Why don't you just do [this] instead' they don't care! We've been dealing with this stupid shit since we got on this website and this stupid slap fight has been going on for the last 20 years at least. There's no concessions we could make, bar going away forever, that would satisfy people that are opposed to how we exist.

Like maybe I am just deeply jaded at this point but that's how it is. Because I've seen the community make concession after concession and none of it is ever good enough.

We just want these people to leave our community alone. Stop talking about us. The people that find community in the greater plural umbrella are fine but the rest of these people need to get a better goddamn hobby.

[justanothersyscourse]

Hey, guys

Can someone define harassment for me?

Because I'm pretty sure it doesn't involve answering a question to someone else and @ ing another person on tumblr to say, "sorry if I misunderstood, but I still think you did this in bad faith, and as a community we should talk about this."

And I'm pretty sure saying something like that doesn't mean you deserve death threats and suibaiting, and a person doing the exact same thing to you that they're CLAIMING you're doing when you've already long since moved on to other hot topics, and using much more inappropriate language than you ever did.

But

[navelgazed]

Genuinely do wish pro-endos in the syscourse would stop equating created systems as the default of what endogenic means or that tulpamancy is the primary way endogenics come into being. I know that's what researchers are focusing on but mmmm feels bad

[median-net]

Do you agree with the thought that systems can only form from childhood trauma? I didn’t become a system until I was 17-18 due to emotional and sexual abuse, and it makes me feel kind of invalid, and also worried that I’ll be told I’m lying 😕

No, especially as an endogenic median system, I don't believe that theory at all.

I'm sorry for what you went through. You're totally valid.

~Mod Willow