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my opinions on self-dx

yes:

“i think im coming down with something, i’m going to take cold medicine and antibiotics so it doesn’t last too long.”

“wow, some of my habits really come off as someone with ADHD. i’m going to apply ADHD coping mechanisms and see if it helps, and maybe see a doctor”

no:

“this weird bump is getting weirder, and according to webmd as well as this one tumblr journal blog with an overly medical ‘aesthetic’ that’s supposed to be about cancer, i have symptoms of cancer. -logs onto twitter- [sorry guys, i have cancer :( see u in the afterlife ig]”

“i’ve been spacing out a lot, and i feel like my personality changes between different environments. my imagination is really running rampant. according to this carrd, these are traits of Dissociative Identity Disorder, so I must have it. -logs onto discord- -pk;s new- -changes about me to ‘SYSTEM OF 25′ with a link to a hastily edited carrd and unnecessary symbols- -changes status to ‘F; BLURRY | DNIUC’-”

tl;dr

I support self-dx as long as you’re only using the label internally and using it to search for coping mechanisms. If it really bothers you, seek professional help, not strangers over the internet. You can legitimately brainwash yourself into your own god damn mind emulating Plural (&) (/metaphor), especially with the “aid” of internet strangers who only seek to validate you and tell you that you 100% have this disorder.

I went through the god damn cult-like mentality of endogenic/plural echo chambers for two years. I went through thinking I was a system. Don’t let it happen to you.

#about: self-dx #about: endogenics /neg #anti endo #endo exclusionist #and just to make sure this gets on the tags they search on #sysmedicalism #sysmed safe #pro sysmed #sysmed mention #sysmed

Endos/supporters dni

#syscourse #anti endo #sysmed safe #actuallydid #actually osdd #system #endos dni

i hate when perfectly good servers do this i hate it i hate it i hate it

you’ve got a perfectly good server, and then you get ONE little endo rolling in (if they say they’re “traumagenic”, they’re also endo. i do not fucking care. unless you’re using that label so that everyone knows what you’re talking about)

and then the whole place collapses. pluralkit, mods that obsess over every little detail of your mistakes. excited to talk about your comfort characters? cotton ball’s fictive-heavy, easily triggered system of 120,000+ will make sure you NEVER talk about a fictional character again. or exist in peace, because the clicking sound from osu is a slur against fictendowillobullshitgenic headmates now!

#not endo safe #sysmed safe #syscourse #Fuck you.

the entire reason people think im an endo exclus i think is because endos not only make me uncomfortable sometimes but back when i id’d as plural i told people about it and now i can never go back to those places because what if they go ‘oh hey werent u that person who has did’ and then i’d have to answer questions about nonexistent alters. its such an embarrassing process

#endo exclusionist #not necessarily exclus or inclus just using the tag #sysmed safe

here's the plured (plur as in plural, -ed as in education) flag

Anybody can fly this flag if they currently are or have been in the plural community before and are knowledgeable on the subject of plurality, both of endogenic and disordered plurality. Flying this flag and identifying as a plured means:

- You are neither anti-endo or pro-endo; instead you study plurality and engage with the communities in a neutral and civil way

- You won't make any harassing posts towards pro-endos or anti-endos and won't take an exclusive side to either

- You're focused on researching plurality and making an effort to further the understanding of plurality, rather than participating in the intense discourse between pro-endos and anti-endos.

You can identify as plured if you are a system or knowledgeable singlet. This term was not meant to replace anything, but rather stand as a term for someone who comes to both communities in peace and neutrality to better understand plurality.

#tw: syscourse #endo safe #sysmed safe #plural terms

i don't want endos to die i want them to realize there are coping mechanisms that are less stressful and less time-consuming than leaning into the sociogenic illness that some endo-safespace Discord echo chamber gave you. i picked back up my passion for writing and got into the Pokemon meta

#sysmed safe #sysmedicalism