I hate, hate, when people give me vague instructions. Nothing is more frustrating than when they say things like "You'll know when it happens." Or "You'll know what it'll look like." No I won't! I've never done the thing before! Or maybe I will but I'll never know until it happens and I'll be anxious and hyperaware the whole time until then wondering if I missed something or did it wrong. Please, PLEASE give me detailed instructions! Give me times, give me measurements, give me a step by step recount of the task because otherwise I'll overthink everything to oblivion and that'll make what should have been a simple task into something more difficult than it should be! Not because the task itself is hard but because of everything I perceive as an unknown variable. And then I'll feel bad and silly by the end because why did I make such a fuss over that? I'll be disappointed in myself through out the process and maybe then after. UGHA!
















