There was an anon named Ace Anon who distinctly talked about not liking sexual content.
Which is fine! I still post fluff every now and again. They don’t have to read my smut.
It was kinda odd to say to a primarily nsfw blog though
But then they really got into sending smut content themselves?? Featuring Warden Ingo usually doing dubious things to Ace anon, and them being blissfully unaware.
Some of it I admit I would be into writing, but the fact they were sending it in, and using words like it was happening to them themselves, was just kinda off putting. I felt like I was walking on eggshells around them because they stated more than once they hated sexual content.
It felt like they also wanted me to respond to everything they sent, and build off of it, which was hard to do because I didn’t want to write more off of it since they claimed to hate such content.
Then I had to put my foot down once, because they were sending like 3-5 things a day. They backed off a bit.
Then there was the whole Kidnapped Writer Au that started as a joke, and kinda got out of hand. This is when their friend started sending in asks too.
Eventually I got fed up with the AU since people were kinda?? Sending things in about ME and ACE specifically, instead of a Reader and Ingo’s Darling. Their friend even sent in some things about us both running away together romantically to spite Ingo in this au, and doubled down when I tried to push the idea away.
Safe to say, I didn’t like the hate people sent about Ace over the AU itself, and how people were writing me getting hurt (And sending stuff against the rules), and several other things, like getting shipped with another person.
Their friend got really mad, and Ace Anon panicked. Both thought I was talking about them. (Though I made it INCREDIBLY clear it wasn’t Ace I was upset with at the time, and that MULTIPLE anons had sent it stuff I wasn’t comfortable with. Not just Ace and their friend)
But their friend took it personally and sent this whole thing in (In the ask i answered, thats what they are referring to when they said I probably wouldn’t respond to that ask either.)
It was long, and creepy, malicious, entitled, and obsessive. I didn’t answer it because I wanted to take the high road and not stir up more drama. I just screenshotted it, blocked em, and moved on. I even took a break after all of it from how overwhelmed I was.
(Not to mention I got that first ask on the day before my birthday, so that was fun to wake up to.)
During that Hiatus, Ace anon actually reached out to the blogs I have named on my introduction post, which was... Kinda weird. Like, it was those two specifically they sent asks to.
And again, mentioned how much they hated sexual content, but liked the writing. To two primarily nsfw blogs. I let both know about the situation though, just in case.
Not long before i open the inbox again, I get a DM from Ace, who made a blog i think to chat with me. (I won’t be naming it here.) And a friend I told about it mentioned that half of it was memes, and the other half was just my content.
Not like, illegal or anything, but weird.
They were nice, but I kept them at an arms distance. I wanted to give them the benefit of the doubt they were unaware of what their friend sent, but I also didn’t want to get close or involved. I didn’t initiate any conversations, only occasionally responding.
Well, exactly 2 months later after closing asks, I open asks for chatting again. Ace sent in a few things, but it started getting rough again when it became No Nut November.
They sent in an ask talking about how no one could be horny anymore, and to wait for Destroy Dick December.
I get it could be a joke, but it seemed kinda in bad taste, given how it was sent, and I’m a primarily nsfw blog. So I kinda responded a bit curt, and how the month was a meme, and no one said anything about writing/reading smut, and being horny. Just couldn’t nut and all that.
Their next ask started with “But my Ace month :(” And they explained how they thought it was a real month, and thought in school how the jokes were real and it made them feel safer around people because they thought people had to be like them for a month. They then explained they thought that way because they were autistic. (Though I can’t remember if they said that in THAT ask, or another ask which i had deleted after wards)
Which, I mean I am on the spectrum too, but this is still a nsfw blog. No need to cry tears about it to me, or double down on your reasoning. THAT is what kinda put a bad taste in everyone’s mouth.
THEN their friend showed up in my ask box again, saying that Ace had them read my stuff again, and that they wanted to improve their writing. However, Ace apparently had ‘problems’ with my writing, but was too scared to tell me themselves, thinking I would get upset.
These problems were that my Readers lacked empathy for the people their yandere boyfriends killed (When I had only written about a reader knowing their bf killed someone ONCE, and it was an abusive ex that Warden Ingo had killed.) Everything else was hypothetical. All stuff that usually involved the other party doing something bad to the reader in the first place.
Then they insulted me bc in a literal fever dream, I pushed James from Silent Hill into a monster and ran. They said ‘What good person does that?? James did some shit, but really?’
Which, it was a dream, and James murdered his sick wife in the game so i mean?? I guess they genuinely think actions in dreams determine if you are a good person or not.
Then they called my Reader inserts selfish, and had no redeeming qualities. Which I don’t think is true. This proved they either picked and chose what they read, or lacked reading comprehension.
Several fics put the smut second, firstly focusing on another issue. Such as the Reader caring for the hero of Hisui like a parent fic, or the android submas fic, where the reader show worry and compassion for the androids after they had been injured.
Then they tried to cover all this, saying it was ‘criticism.’ It was not criticism. They never gave any advice how to improve my writing. They just wanted a wall to hide behind after knowingly being awful.
But funnily enough, they acknowledge that everything I had written was fiction, but then?? Said it could be better?? And mentioned how I don’t even write an appearance, just had everyone assume the Reader was pretty??
So that’s a whole thing. Which is even funnier too given this is a reader insert blog. I can’t write descriptions unless someone specifically requests it, because it would alienate other readers.
Then they said how I probably wouldn’t respond, and ‘Hopefully’ i wouldn’t leave for months again, because it stressed Ace Anon out.
Again, as harsh as it sounds, I’m not responsible for other people’s stress and feelings. If they get upset over something on my blog, when everything is properly tagged, they shouldn’t be here.
Nor is it my responsibility to watch out for a stranger, and cater around their feelings and stress. When I didn’t even know Ace Anon’s name.
Here is a link to the whole post, and my full response.
After I responded, I blocked them both, and that kinda sums it up.
Everyone has been very kind though, and very supportive. I’m very lucky to have such support (❁´◡`❁)
This isn’t everything, but I hope it clears things up a bit to the whole situation, and how messy it has been. Hopefully after this, I can kinda just put it all behind me.
