#thirdsex

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The Zero-V Files: The Pudendal Nerve as G-Spot

For those just tuning in, I'm a third sex person-what exactly that is is different for each person (we all have unique anatomy), but for me it means I was born with a microphallus, labia, and a urethra in the spot where a vagina would be-and no vagina, but because my urethral opening is so large it's often mistaken for one. (I blame crappy sex ed for this.)

I am also sexless: all my reproductive tissues have been removed...and yet, despite neither having a vagina nor a prostate gland, I can still experience a g-spot orgasm.

HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?!?!?!?!

I've spent the weekend trying to figure that out. I'm 99.98% certain I understand what's going on.

Prior to my shit ton of surgery, the main way I was able to orgasm was through receptive anal penetration-and I was truly an animal: I could shove a fire hydrant up my butt and not feel a thing.

However, in the process of the surgery my rectum had to be rearranged, and this ended my era of anal hedonism: everything gets stuck now, and fantasizing about penetration no longer causes arousal. I think one the nerves that controls the sphincter got lost in the process.

But then something mysterious started happening: I began experiencing arousals somewhere else: at the junction where the labia connect in the back. For me this is a stretchy patch of skin that can be pressed inward a little bit, and I experimented with penetrating this area as deeply as possible, leading to the discovery that I could orgasm this way; I've since termed it Interlabial Sex.

Prior to my surgery, one of the problems I had was when I would sit my genitals would go completely numb, and it would take a minute of kneading and literally punching myself in the dick before sensation was restored.

After the surgery, this problem never happened again, and I think (99.98% probability) that the thing that was pinching the arteries and nerves wasn't there any more, leading to unrestricted blood flow going to my pudendal nerve, which is the nerve that controls sexual arousal in humans, and happens to be in the place where the labia connect in the back.

While exploring this new kind of penetration, naturally, I would fantasize about having sex with someone with a penis, who would thrust deeper and deeper into me, until I started fantasizing about having a vagina...and realized I could feel pleasure inside me, similar to what I felt when I could have anal sex, with similarly intense orgasms.

BUT WHY?!?!?!?!

Studying diagrams about how to stimulate the g-spot through the vaginal wall and how to get to a man's prostate gland, these spots turn out to be in the same place: behind and a little below the bladder.

Veeeerrrry interesting.

As everyone with two brain cells recalls, the human sexes originate from the same embryonic goop, and thus have the same nerve systems: the inferior hypogastric plexus and the sacral plexus-which the interwebs are telling me is what the pudendal nerve branches off of but I honestly don't know how they can tell all these squiggly lines apart.

Anyway, the point is, in both male and female persons, there is this nerve cluster behind and a little below the bladder, which in me got reconnected to the pudendal nerve-or maybe it already was, and it was only because of the circulatory problems that I could only feel it through my rectum.

Some of you who have kept up with my old man ramblings might be wondering: since you fantasize a lot about receptive vaginal intercourse nowadays, are you thinking about getting a vagina?

No, for a couple of reasons.

First, the idea of having a vagina for realz causes a lot of distress.

Secondly, where would a vagina go? Right where I have these nerves I'm havin' so much fun with. They would be sliced to smithereens.

Which makes we wonder about the fate of other people sort of on the female side of things who also don't have vaginas.

So many are pressured to get vaginoplasties so they can have "real" sex. Some of them are even children when this happens.

Bad sex ed will be the death of civilization, so the elders of my tribe prophesy. How many people were denied the chance to explore the pudendal nerve through perineal massage, having their own mind-blowing orgasms, before deciding on surgery?

We need to add another chapter in the sex ed books about pudendal nerves and perineums and the avenues this provides for zero-v sexuality.

Zero-v for LIFE, baby!

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Genderqueer Suffragist Pride Flag

Suffragist/suffragette was considered a "third sex", and suffrage flag is very similar to the genderqueer flag by @gqid.

Suffragism: the belief that the right to vote should be extended to more people, especially women; the fight for the right of women to vote in elections. Genderqueer: general term encompassing experiences beyond the typical binary/cis notions of gender; a countercultural gender identity.

[varsex-pride]

Thirdsex Flag

A third-sex (tersex) is commonly used to denote an “other” sex category beyond “m” or “f” (of male or female) in documents for example. In some passports they don’t categorize “third-gender” but instead “sex”. 

It would seem like biological essentialism, but some people interpret this as a psychosocial sex (often referred as brain sex in English). Denoting someone who is not dyadic, while not essentially intersex, hence may be classified as altersex.

Yes, some perisex people are registered civilly as third-sexed. They might not be considered endosex or dyadic though.

[midiaqueer]

A Primeira marcha do orgulho trans no Paquistão: saiba o que foi

A primeira Parada Trans-dissidente  no Paquistão foi realizada no dia 29 de dezembro de 2018 em Lahore onde reivindicaram a implementação das reformas dos direitos trans e não-binário marcada por surpresas.

“Essa é a primeira vez, em nosso mais 70 anos de história, que estamos celebrando nossa visibilidade e identidade. Eu sou uma ativista, artista e uma das principais pessoas que apresentou o projeto de lei que foi aprovado. Hoje, no dia 29 de dezembro, nos reunimos aqui para celebrar isso. Pessoas trans estão sempre lamentando, mas hoje, desde que nossa lei foi aprovada, estamos celebrando” - Jannat Ali

No início de 2018, um canal de TV local no Paquistão contratou sua primeira âncora transgênero. Quando o ano estava chegando ao fim, um autor canadense-paquistanês lançou um livro infantil para ajudá-les a tornarem-se mais tolerantes com a comunidade LGBT. O livro intitulado My Chacha is Gay conta a história de um garotinho Ahmed, que mora em Karachi, e cujo tio é gay.

O Paquistão ainda tem quilômetros a percorrer para reconhecer e adotar os direitos LGBTQIAPN+, mas estamos, lenta e seguramente, chegando lá. A primeira Marcha do Orgulho Trans e dissidente de gênero foi realizada em Lahore na semana passada, encerrando o ano com uma nota positiva. A modelo transgênero e ativista Kami Sid também fez parte das festividades que adicionaram mais cor às ruas de Lahore (Kami nas fotos abaixo )

Acompanhe aqui o vídeo no YouTube sobre como foi 

Aes manifestantes marcharam, entre outras coisas, para exigir a implementação da "Transgender Person Act", uma lei que estabelece os direitos fundamentais das pessoas trans e não-binária, votada em 8 de maio de 2018 pelo Senado.

O texto permite que pessoas trans determinem seu próprio sexo/gênero em todos os documentos oficiais. Em 2009, esse país de cultura conservadora e patriarcal esteve entre os primeiros do mundo a reconhecer legalmente um terceiro gênero.

A lei também proíbe toda discriminação contra as pessoas trans no trabalho, na escola, nos hospitais ou no transporte público. Problema: A ratificação do texto pelo presidente paquistanês Mamnoon Hussain ainda não ocorreu

Como um país não-ocidental é importante deixarmos claro que aqui o significado de trans, assim como não-binário entre outros termos e as noções de gêneros ocidentais, são expressos e interpretados de formas um tanto diferentes, então não são a mesma coisas que no ocidente. Por isso optamos pelo termo dissidentes de gênero (MGA). Pessoas dissidentes de gênero no paquistão vão de Hijras, Khawajasiras, khawajas sara, khusras,  khadros à Bachas Posh. 

O evento começou com uma coletiva de imprensa des ativistas que lideravam a marcha, que em si atraiu uma grande multidão, enquanto tomavam as ruas da segunda maior cidade paquistanesa. Pessoas aliadas ao movimento seguravam cartazes em apoio à comunidade e agitavam bandeiras, enquanto as outras na rua apenas olhavam.

De acordo com o jornal Express Tribune, os manifestantes de março de 2018 pressionaram o governo a finalmente implementar a lei. "Esta é a primeira vez na história do Paquistão que as pessoas trans-dissidentes de gênero estão recebendo seus direitos", disse Neeli Rana, uma ativista trans-paquistanesa, no final da reunião.

E para acrescentar: "As pessoas trans não imploram por implorar. Nós também temos o direito de protestar e descer a rua. Cabe agora ao governo implementar este projeto. "

Discriminação persistente.

No entanto, na vida cotidiana, as khawajasiras,  uma comunidade de pessoas transfemininas e intersexo, vivem como párias e muitas vezes são reduzidas a mendigar e prostituir-se. Extorsão e discriminação são comuns, assim como estupro e assassinatos dessas pessoas.

Apesar da descriminalização da homossexualidade no país vizinho Índia, gays e lesbicas ainda correm o risco de serem preses no Paquistão, um legado de uma lei anti-sodomia do governo colonial britânico. Éles são punides até sob a lei Sharia, também aplicada neste país muçulmano conservador.

O Código Penal do Paquistão de 1860, originalmente desenvolvido sob o colonialismo, pune a sodomia com uma possível sentença de prisão e tem outras disposições que afetam os direitos humanos de paquistaneses LGBT, sob o disfarce de proteger a moralidade pública e a ordem.

Fontes: Tetu/CutaCut/ DailyPakistan/ MangoBazz

Postado e Editado por D. Camel via NBh+

[thirdsexmanifesto]

Perineal Urethra Pride Flag

The yellow might be a little too literal, but I couldn't think of anything else. As with the other flags I've designed, the gray half represents one's natural genital set, while the yellow represents the urinary track, with the circle on the bottom for the perineal orifice.

Perineal, if one hadn't guessed, refers to the perineum, and in typical human physiology, the bladder doesn't empty back there, but there are several reasons why someone might be different.

In a lot of cases one might be born that way, such as y-type urethral duplication, in which a person has a urethra in the normal position, and a second one in the back; in female or close-to-female persons, this may result in the second urethra being fused to the vaginal wall, so pee comes out the vagina. Other cases may result from severe hypospadias or for reasons that have yet to be determined.

Just as many incidences are caused by treatment for medical conditions. In the event of gender incongruent men born female or close-to-female, who suffer from gender dysphoria and wish to have male genitalia but not urethroplasty, the position of their urethra behind the new scrotum can be preserved with a procedure similar to a urethrostomy.

In the case of fe/male/close-to-either -to-nullo with gender dysphoria (who may be men, agender, or anything in between), the result of having their genitals removed results in either needing a urethrostomy or the female/close-to-female urethral opening morphing into a noticeable hole about where the vagina used to be-the perineal zone.

For gender incongruent women born male/close-to-male with gender dysphoria who want female-looking genitals but don't want to go through a vaginoplasty, a urethrostomy is a very simple solution.

The most common medical condition that requires creation of a perineal urethra is strictures in the male/close-to-male urinary tract: as one gets older, the more likely this will be the result of prostatic hyperplasia, in which the prostate gland constricts around the urethra at the base of the bladder, creating a potentially fatal blockage.

In rare cases of hypospadias without any history of complications, they'll suddenly start having catastrophic strictures later in adulthood with creating a perineal urethra the only way to preserve life.

How many people have perineal urethras no one knows because medical associations and disease analysts haven't been keeping track-but I imagine it's quite a lot.

In many cultures, standing to urinate is essential to masculinity, and the loss of that ability can cause men to have a lot of emotional distress, even gender dysphoria. For trans men and transmascs who get too many fistulas in their urethral lengthenings and have to reverse the surgery, I imagine that's also really tough to come to terms with...

...or, sitting to urinate not being a component of their gender dysphoria may lead their therapists or their peers to doubt their transness, their manliness, with the concomitant social pressure to conform.

For duplicated urethras, the second one can be seen as an unsightly deformity, or there may be a slight incontinence problem, which is also socially unacceptable, so it's dissected away at the earliest opportunity.

With hypospadias, Real Men Stand To Pee (tm) is the whole point of those urethroplasties, which usually cause more problems than they solve, such as spraying, but the child may feel under so much pressure to conform that they won't even dare think to sit.

As I frequently bemoaned in my article, "So your date's sexless: what to expect when there's nothing down there," because perineal urethras are positioned where a vagina typically is, and because they are a noticeable orifice, they are often confused for vaginas-and better sex ed is needed, simply put, so that people understand that these things exist and how to tell the difference.

Having a perineal urethra myself, I do stand to urinate (it's actually easier), so I can dispel some misconceptions: it's mostly a matter of technology.

The "pack 'n' pee" things made for trans men cannot work with my anatomy: because the female urethra is right on top of the vagina, the funnel part of the thing has to go into the vagina, otherwise the urine backs out and sprays everywhere-and I don't have a vagina.

At home, I can just stand over the bowl, but in public or outdoors that isn't feasible, and the thing that I found that actually works are urinary prosthetics made for female persons who do a lot of camping, specifically the pStyle device, extremely simply designed, and doesn't get in the way of my microphallus-which was another problem that kept coming up when looking for a device: despite about half my groin being on the female-ish end of things, stuff made for the female end, men and women alike, doesn't fit me (hashtag third sex problems).

Technically, a person with a scrotum can use a pStyle, but you would need to pull your sac upward to get the thing in place.

So this pride flag is for us saints and scalawags who pee out the back, that we should not be stigmatized for being born this way, or coming to be this way via a medical condition, nor should we be made fun of for using prostheses.

We are joy, and we will be liberating a urinal next to you.

[thirdsexmanifesto]

Moments in sexlessnes

In a recent issue of Time magazine Angelina Jolie proudly displayed tama mastectomy scars. I remember when the news of tama surgery leaked years ago the manosphere going nuts, whining about how another hot chick had gotten tranzed and mutilated. Probably why tama later salpingo-oophorectomy was kept quieter.

This queer woman did this because of cancer, but the cisheteronormative hegemony doesn't make these distinctions, it doesn't care if you were born with agonadism or had cancer. Cisheteronormativity only cares about one thing: perfection. Anything less than that and you're a disposable freak.

Though extremely unlikely that Mg. Jolie identifies as a female eunuch, ta definitely understands being queer-bodied and freak pride...an' ya gotta let all that out.

You can't live a life in shame. Governed by it. Having scars is the new natural. It's your body it's natural.

My labiaplasty-on-male-genitals (yeah, that's a real thing) are very prominent, but in all my years of making erotic content and shoving my crotch in the camera not one person has ever said a thing. No one cares.

Ya gotta seize the day, own it, and never apologize.

Angelina never apologized; never begged a pardon. Nope: I'm gonna rip my shirt open 'n' show my scars an' yer jus' haveta git used to that, boy.

And that's how ya do it.

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Eunuch Awareness Week: Day Seven: Some Flags

To end this pride week I decided a return to the positive, and add a bit of color: let's get some flags, people!

The standard flag is one invented by Beyond Mogai Pride:

it's bright and flashy, and everyone likes it, unlike the teresex flag which is drab and ugly, and won't be shown here.

For trans men who want to be male eunuchs, Transx Mogai Cafe knows you're there:

In the studies I found, non-binary eunuchs were almost evenly split between genderqueers and all other non-binary genders, so I designed a flag based on the genderqueer flag:

For women eunuchs I designed a flag based on the cis woman one by Idrisney29:

A couple miscellaneous flags: there's the Sexless flag by The Mogai Dragon:

if you don't wanna use the e-word.

And lastly, the Thirdsex flag by Varsex Pride, for those who feel they're a third sex, or come from a culture with more than two sexes:

If you're looking for community, men have reclaimed the word "eunuch;" that's pretty much the only way to find guys to talk to. For women, your best bet is seeking out groups for Altersex, Nullo/nulloplasty/ectomy. There are very large non-binary support groups within the transgender community, there's no shortage of people to ask for advice.

Well, I hope my Awareness Week has been very informative, expanding knowledge, making the world a more colorful place, and, perhaps, helps someone on their path of self-discovery.

[thirdsexmanifesto]

Neutrian Pride Flag

As of 3rd August 2025 editing this to provide clarity.

Color scheme based on the Neuadic flag; I always liked its earth-tones. The name is derived from the Latin word "neutra," meaning "neither."

This is a counterpart to the Mullerian and Wolffian flags, referring to which reproductive system one has-but what if you got none of those? See a void, fill a void. For people who don't have a reproductive system, either from agenesis or as the result of medical treatment.