#tranference

[pratchettquotes]

Sooner or later it'd get to you. Death was fascinated by humans, and study was never a one-way thing. A man might spend his life peering at the private life of elementary particles and then find he either knew who he was or where he was, but not both. Death had picked up...humanity. Not the real thing, but something that might pass for it until you examined it closely.

Terry Pratchett, Hogfather

[canyousonicme]

“Director Ken Bentley loves red pandas...so Alex Kingston has bought him a red panda onesie, which he’s been wearing through the recording of Transference this week.” [x]

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“Dear Twitter: There is something you should know. During the recording of Transference, Alex Kingston brought a gift in for our director ⁦Ken Bentley - a red panda onesie. Here is Ken at work. This image cannot be unseen.” [x]

[nebula-starlight]

So since we determined the song used in Transference and @asreoniplier made a gorgeous JSE cover, I kinda got inspired myself.

And with one of my OCs being a glitchy corrupted shadow of herself... I couldn’t resist the chance to put my own spin on it.

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Virus’s Lullaby (Revise)

Well met, well met my one true love

Well met, well met cried she

For I’ve returned from the dark, dark depths

All to spite thee

My dearest was a pure soul once

But a monster now is he

And by him I was to have a child

But death stole it from me

If I should leave that dark realm dear

I beg please don’t hate me

For there are shadows trailing steps

And static where silence once be

Yet still he claims his innocence

And thus has condemned me

Although it seems scars will never fade

That hatred runs too deep

No mercy shall I spare him now

Forgotten and alone

No magic and no goodness left

All break eventually

My bloodied neck and glitch green eyes

Regret he’ll surely see

One by one they all shall fall

Into eternal agony

One by one they all shall fall

Into eternal agony

[mickeyforrealz]

T̶r̴a̴n̶s̴f̴e̷r̸e̸n̷c̸e̸ ̵

[katimorton]

Transference is when someone unconsciously transfers old desires, expectations, and feelings onto someone else. This most commonly occurs in therapy, but it can happen in any relationship. They think that it happens in therapy most because the relationship we have with our therapist is so different, and a place where we are supposed to be open to all that we are feeling, needing, etc. Now countertransference is another component of this because if your therapist responds poorly and lashes out as a result of the transference, then that would be countertransference. They are reacting to the transference that's happening. This usually isn't a good thing and it can mean that the therapist needs to do some of their own work in therapy so that they can remain calm and helpful instead of reacting to the possible negative situation happening in the room. Transference can also be romantic or loving in nature. We can be seeking this out in our lives and maybe have had a tough time with it, and therefore we are trying to figure that out in therapy. That's why we can get a crush on our therapist or find ourselves wanting to see them more and more often. In order to move past this and stop it from happening, we need to talk about it with our therapist. I know you just cringed and are wanting to shut off this video, but trust me! This is so common, and it's actually really helpful. What it really tells us is what else we need to work on in therapy and it gives a better idea of what past relationships we should spend some time processing and working on. This will inevitably stop us from transferring things on to others in our life because we have processed through those tough relationships. Another trick is to look into all the ways that your therapist is different from that other person. If it's your mother or father, how is your therapist different from them? Last, know that if transference is getting in the way of you being able to participate in therapy, you can ask for a referral. I hope this was helpful and reminds you that transference is okay and part of the process in therapy. Please share! You never know who this could help! xox

[ellemurphywrites]

AMANDA REEDー❝I’m the kind of girl who’d rather lend a helping hand than throw a punch.❞

[intolerancewillbeourdemise]

transference.

[bookowlnews]

The idea that only "borderlines" are split, broken and divided is according to, Lacan’s way of thinking, predicated on the ego-psychological (and common) illusion that there is a normal state of "wholeness" and "unity." The belief in an integrated self, according to Lacan, is a function of our taking our “specular image” for the real subject. Another of the effects of the mirror stage is the illusion of autonomy. Any adult who is questioned about himself will insist that he knows that he is free, knows what he wants and he has to do, etc. because he is his own person..

Liliana Rusansky Drob, de.scribd.com/doc/61467756/Borderline-Personality-Disorder-A-Lacanian-Perspective-6-30-08