There seems to be this weird reaction to trans headcanons that no matter if its fem or masc, no one is happy
You cant headcanon a masculine man as a trans man bcs it "doesnt make sense"
You cant headcanon a feminine man as a trans man because "you're steorotyping"
You cant headcanon a gnc man as a trans man because "no trans man would dress like that you fetishizer"
You cant headcanon a masculine man as a trans woman because "that's completely out of character"
You cant headcanon a feminine man as trans woman because "you only headcanon that because he wears (typically feminine thing)"
You cant headcanon a gnc man as a trans woman because "just because he likes certain clothes doesnt make him trans"
You cant headcanon a masculine woman as a trans man because "you're a misogynistic fetishizer"
You cant headcanon a feminine woman as a trans man because "its making stuff up" or again "you're a fetishizer"
You cant headcanon a gnc woman as a trans man because "you're enforcing gender steorotypes"
You cant headcanon a masculine woman as a trans woman because "you're a misogynist transphobe"
You cant headcanon a feminine woman as a trans woman because "she doesnt seem trans"
You cant headcanon a gnc woman as a trans woman because "trans women dont like being masculine"
You cant draw pre-op bodies because "its too sexual", "its transphobic to show that", or "you're fetishizing trans bodies"
Can't draw post-op because "they look funny" or "that doesnt make sense"
This isnt even getting into Nonbinary or Genderfluid headcanons, or even headcanons that dare to be complex. Or trans headcanons that involve stuff trans people "shouldnt do" like a trans man deciding to have kids or a trans woman doing literally anything with her private parts.
Half the time any existence of said headcanon is demeaned as tarnishing a precious cis character or is virtue signaled in a "woke" way such as things listed before or calling a trans character in a queer ship "heteronormative" or "straight-ifing"
God forbid you yourself are a trans man or trans woman making these headcanons, ESPECIALLY if its to connect to a character.
I feel like its a mix of throwing around buzzwords or just not scrolling if they dislike something. If you're not being a dick about your hc why gaf.
Long rant but I'm sick of this stuff in fandom when it comes to trans headcanons















