#trans reminder

[victorian-mlm]

don't ever feel like you have to change your name, pronouns, or the words you use to describe your identity for other people's comfort or convenience.

be true to yourself. you know yourself. other people do not get in a say in who you are. your identity, your life, does not need to change for their comfort. they need to accept you, you don't need to change for them.

your comfort matters more than other's convenience

[wish-ful-thinking513]

I didn’t know this when I first realised I was cisn’t, so I feel like should tell all the newly found trans folks out there that you don’t need to have The Surgery™️.

If you don’t want to get any gender conformation surgery, that’s fine.

If you only want top surgery but not bottom surgery, that’s totally cool!

Bottom surgery but not top surgery? Super rad.

Do what makes you comfortable!

[ghostscriesx]

💖!!!~reminder that it costs nothing at all to respect your trans kids chosen name and pronouns~!!!💖

🌺reminder that the excuse of 'you live under my roof i can call you what i want' is shit and so are the people that use it🌺

💗reminder that if your child tells you not to call them something it means that name may cause them discomfort or dysphoria💗

🌹reminder to respect your fucking trans kids🌹

~🌷its understandable that they'd get upset at you if you refuse to acknowledge their chosen name, don't be a little bitch if they correct you🌷~

[queer-positivity-and-advice]

[Image Description: A forest beneath a mountain ridge on a somewhat cloudy day. In the top left hand corner in black text are the words “Trans people don’t need to conform to cis people’s expectation of gender.” End description]

[selfmademen]

[supportyourlocalclownery]

Hi! I just wanted to remind everyone some things about binding!

Do not use ace bandages, duct tape, etc for binding! You risk damaging nerve ending in your chest!

Listen to your body! If you get extreme chest pains from your binder, take it off immediately! If it hurts at all to wear the binder, refrain from wearing it until you can get a new one!

To continue from the last reminder, examine your chest area to figure out WHY it was hurting! It could be something as simple as your chest grew (this is common if you are binding at a young age, since your body is still growing), or several other reasons!

Do not hold your breath when you put on your binder! Breathe normally!

When you take off your binder, cough forcefully 3 times- this loosens any fluid that could have settled in your chest!

This was a friendly reminder to all my nonbinary or trans followers!I hope you all have a dysmorphia free day!