#transcompassionate

[mogai-flag-makers]

<3 <3 !!Pastel genders!! <3 <3

Pystal (pronounced peas-tahl): A gender which is a combination of softboi + softgirl! Associated pronouns are pa/paer/paes/paeself (Pa is a pystal. Pa loves to play with paer cards. I would love to play cards with paem. Pa is very good, so pa should be very proud of paeself!) 

Used like girl/boy/enby!!

Pasugosgender: A gender that is both pastel and goth, but not pastel goth! Like a blend of light, easter colours, and dark blacks! Associated pronouns are  pas/pasu/gos/goself (Pas is pasugosgender. Pas loves to play with pasu cards. I would love to play cards with gos. Pas is very good, so pas should be very proud of goself!)

So hapi abt my first post ^w^!!! 

- pastella

[addiscorse]

trans tea:

you need to stop wishing to be cis. you were born as you are, and unfortunately that can’t change. instead, you need to celebrate and love yourself for who you are, not mourn what is impossible. i get it, i really do, if i was a cis girl or boy life would be So much easier, but unfortunately, i’m not. and if you’re trans, you aren’t either. don’t treat being trans as if it’s a horrible illness though, you’ve been blessed with an experience to help and change the world so others like you can live their life. you’re wonderful, you’re transgender, you are you and that is a wonderful thing to be. dysphoria sucks so much and if i could switch into a cis body i would, but until that is possible i’m going to do my best to work on loving myself and the body that i’m in.

[tomboyfriends]

hello

Recently I’ve been making the rounds on disboard and learning a bunch of terms like transcomp/transcompassionate, transsoc/transsociologist as alternative terms to anti-transmed/tucute/etc. Here’s another I’m gonna drop on top of that!: Dysphoria Non-Essentialist (DNE for short): A person who believes dysphoria is not needed to be trans. Inversely its transmedicalist counterpart would be the following: Dysphoria Essentialist: A person who believes dysphoria is necessary to be trans. Neither of these are meant to be insults! Note: I left the discourse in 2015-2016 jsyk. I’m not coming back to it, I just like to make terms to hurt people’s heads and made a post after talking about it somewhere else. Btw I hope that for all of your sakes (on either side) that this argument is a dead or dying subject. Hopefully. I’m too lazy to check.

[transm3d]

it makes me really happy when tucutes are nice like I break out into a smile every time idk why

same tbh. it reminds me that some people really are good people and are able to see me past my opinions. i wish more people were like that, I'm a good person at heart

[sunstar121]

a trendersona and a goblinsona at once? it's more likely than you think!

I could give details about them, but I'm too tired to rn. send me an ask for more info

[addiscorse]

the difference between presenting feminine and female

this is my take on this matter

w some badly drawn examples (plus the difference between being male and masculine)

it’s as simple as that! do you identify as a female? no? then you aren’t presenting as a female!! let people wear what makes them happy!

[valkylander]

“Transcompassionate“ will never be as good a term as “tucute.“