Communities that have a certain level of strictness about modesty for women should have the same for men. If you're at the beach and only take issue with women in sleeveless garb but not men without shirts, that's a double standard
Some act like tznius is an obligation only for women, but it's supposed to apply equally to men too, and we should treat it like that
I think we'd have a lot less young women struggling with this if it wasn't possible to see it as a form of sexism, fostering resentment towards the mitzvah
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