Honest to fuck!! Every time I think I find a reactor who actually understands Ilya and his character, I end up completely disappointed. Even when they love him in Episode 1, think he's funny and seem to understand the complexities of his life in Russia, it ALWAYS ends up with them making Ilya out to be some kind of cruel monster.
WHY CAN NO ONE UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH CHARACTERS ARE AT FAULT FOR THE BAD COMMUNICATION??? WHY CAN NO ONE UNDERSTAND THAT THEY BOTH AGREE TO A NO STRINGS ATTACHED RELATIONSHIP, EVEN IF THEY BOTH WANT MORE!!!
Like, seriously how do people go from thinking Ilya is funny and having sympathy for him to hating him because he ghosted Shane for 6 months? Obviously not good, but I'll point out that they were ONLY hooking up at this point with NO expectations or promises exchanged. Ilya didn't owe Shane anything. (And vice versa!) And in fact, one of the reasons Shane is so mad at Ilya for ghosting him is BECAUSE he's upset by it. Shane believes they SHOULDN'T BE TOGETHER! He thinks Ilya is doing the smart thing by staying away, but it hurts him, and that makes him mad.
Then these people never seem to get the Dom/sub dynamic to their relationship even though it's very thoroughly established in the first episode. But because they don't get it, they assume Ilya's just "using" Shane in Vegas, and "treating him like dirt" instead of giving Shane EXACTLY what he wants.
Then they act like the following two years of hookups (episode 4 montage) are all Ilya taking advantage of Shane while Shane's heart is breaking.
Bitch!! Both their hearts are breaking! 🤦🏻♀️ How do you fucking miss that?! But they've BOTH chosen to take what they can from each other, believing they can't have more.
I'm just so fucking sick to death of being excited that maybe FINALLY someone gets it, and then inevitably they end up being clueless fucking idiots.
Does anyone have any suggestions for Ilya friendly reactors? Here are a few I've found:
Barbie Sykes (a fave!! Unfortunately she doesn't have a Patreon which makes me so sad!)
Bev is Watching
Harry Allen
Ryan Rodkey (also a fave!)
Amber Brooke (she has a couple questionable moments, but mostly she's good)
Victoria Organa (another fave!)
Fictional Archives
Angel Explores Reacts These are Filipino women, and the reactions are in Tagalog. But if you put the English subtitles on, it's really easy to follow. They're great reactors! Funny and empathetic to both characters!!
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There are a few other good ones, but here are a handful of the best. These are people who really get the show as a WHOLE! Let me know if you know any others! ❤️















