#unwanted touch

[dollheartedlesbian]

i think the curse of being an advocate against anything is how much you don’t give yourself grace when it happens to you. it’s never your fault

[whumpupthejam]

when whumpee is super weak, whether it’s because they’re drugged or they’ve been beaten or they’re over exhausted etc., and whumper keeps touching/grabbing their face and they’re trying to jerk away but they’re just too weak to escape the touch 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[thoughtsonhurtandcomfort]

Your most recent bit of writing has me thinking about poor little Shae so I wanna caress him <3

Holding him in my hand I’m running my thumb gently over his chest, not quite in an nsfw way, but maybe in a slow enough way that it’s enough to make him a liiiittle uncomfortable :)

Shae enjoys it, at first. It's so gentle, something he doesn't expect from most people. He hums with a little smile on his face and allows it.

But as the touch continues, it becomes...different in a way he can't quite explain. It's slow. Contemplative. The human is smiling. Shae quickly goes from content to unsettled. But he knows better than to try to escape, and so he remains there, completely at this stranger's mercy, trembling at their touch.

[ayyy-imma-ninja]

Hey! I was looking through the serial killer au tag, and found this post! X

I was wondering what this line meant: Such as forgetting to keep their hands to themselves after taking advantage of his kindness.

It's okay if you wanna keep it a secret for now, but I'm nosy lol

part of me is hesitant to explain, but it's no fun if everything about the AU is kept a secret >w<

But this does cover a serious topic involving unwanted touch and attempted assault.

Some time after Sun and Moon got their upgraded bodies they were talk of the town for a few days. Most wanted to check them out, either approaching them or dragging them into places to show them off. At one point the latter happened, and it was at a bar.

After a while a girl who was clearly drunk was looking for someone who could walk her home. She asks Sun specifically. And Sun, only wanting to help, agreed to make sure she got there safely. She said she didn't live far and that they could get there on foot. She wasn't local and was staying at the inn.

The whole time she holds onto him until they get there. He assumes that's the end of it, but then she claims she needs help getting up to her room on the third floor. He feels a bit off about it at this point but he helps her there anyway.

(tw: topic of attempted assault below the cut)

He gets her to the door to her room when she suddenly pins him to the wall; he can easily break free but he's more shocked by what was happening to do so. She speaks in a drunken sultry tone about thanking him for his help and wanting to reward him, and she starts feeling him up. Her hands go to places he doesn't want them to go. She even tries kissing him.

He snaps out of the shock and is scared shitless by this, pushes her away and runs out of the building and straight to his and Moon's apartment. He never sees the girl again as she leaves town the next day.

Sun never told Moon about this incident until years later (still before Detective Y/N returns) because the girl was absolutely wasted and likely didn't know what she was doing; that and he was afraid Moon would kill her. When Moon does find out after Sun suffers a panic attack at a resident's party, he is livid. He's pissed at the girl for doing it, not caring she was drunk, and pissed at Sun for keeping this a secret because they always told each other everything.

But yeah. Because of this incident, he doesn't like going to gatherings that serve alcohol, nor does he like going into places that serve it. It's also why he's not interested at all in a partner.

[evenasmallcough]

Finally, she bent over and, heaving, fell to her knees. Cussing worn out words. As long as she ranted, sobs couldn't surface. A simple hope of being with someone, of actually being wanted, of being touched had drawn her in. But these hurried groping hands were only a taking, not a sharing or giving.

Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing (pg. 162)

[mara-xx217]

Hii! Me who requested the twins dubcon and omg that was so cute! The way you write is so captivating omg!

If it's okay, may we have an alternate ending to that? Where reader returns the hug? I'm so curious as to how that would play out. But totally ok if no!

Aww sure thing! I'm happy to provide!

Part one here!

Warnings: Uncomfortable Close Contact, Violation of Boundaries, Choking, Unwanted Cuddling

Panicking, you wrap your arms around the larger woman's shoulders. Or, at least you attempt to. You were too terrified to try very hard but even your pathetic attempt was immediately noticed by the twin killers.

The woman seemed taken aback, nearly pulling away from you in shock but instead of fully pulling away she quickly wrapped her arms around your neck and squeezed you tightly

You couldn't breathe! You couldn't tell if she was trying to strangle you or- or if she really was trying to hug you! You were nearly lifted off your feet, needing to stand on the tips of your feet to retain some amount of balance but even then you still felt your eyes bulging and neck pounding with blood.

Black specks invaded your vision as one of the Twins buried her face into the crook of your neck. You frantically tap on her, legs kicking out slightly as you wheeze and struggle to gulp down any amount of air you could get.

"Mmphh..."

She mumbled something into your hair but you couldn't understand her. Your heart was pounding in your ears and you need to breathe was priority. One of the killer's arms moves to your lower back as she crushes you against her chest. Now that your face was forced against her bosom, you really couldn't breathe anymore!

You don't know why she was doing this, or why her tyrant of a brother was just standing there, staring at you, just watching as you all but faint in his twin's arm. You didn't even know you could faint in trials! When you came to, you were alone- No, not alone, you were with them. Your team was dead and only you were left, though instead of killing you, the Twins were holding you.

Or rather, the sister was holding you while her brother rested in your lap.

Why did this have to happen to you...? One wrong move and you're undoubtedly going to die a painful death. You feared that retribution, so you just sat there, docile and unable to do a damn thing.

You cringed every time either twin nuzzled into you, feeling faint and just wishing that they would have killed you instead.

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[stoic-whumpee]

whumpee who is touch averse. whumper taking advantage of it and enjoying whumpee squirming with discomfort even at gentle touches, and caretaker who gets snapped and swatted at for trying to touch whumpee. thoughts?

Hell yes touch-averse Whumpee! So many potentials >:D. 

(TW: non-con touching, intimate Whumper. Nothing explicit.)

- Whumpee being tied up and unable to avoid Whumper’s touch. They are extremely uncomfortable and maybe even feel pain on how tense they are. 

- Whumpee trying to dissociate from the scene to escape the unwanted touch, but Whumper doesn’t let them retreat into their own head. Maybe taunting them, or touching them with force or with certain materials, shocking them, etc.  

- Whumper using touch as a bargaining chip. 

If Whumpee lets Whumper touch them, they will get to eat or get untied or get to sleep, etc. 

If Whumpee be obedient and not move away, Whumper won’t hurt their friends. 

(TW: amputation threat) Any of Whumpee’s body part that flinches at Whumper’s touch will be cut off. 

- Whumper using non-touch to torment Whumpee: they move in so close at if they will touch Whumpee, but move away before then. Whumpee is left to squirm and wonder if Whumper will touch them or not, and they are both hyperaware of Whumper’s proximity and unprepared for their touch. 

And touch-averse Whumpee with a Caretaker who fumbles because they don’t know how to offer comfort without touching Whumpee. (Check out my post about comfort/caretaking for touch-averse Whumpee [here]). 

- Caretakers who assumes Whumpee’s need and ends up hurting them more because they hug Whumpee or grab at them. 

- Whumpee, who is traumatised already by Whumper’s unwanted touch, lashes out at Caretaker thinking they are a new Whumper. 

- Caretaker is confused at why Whumpee is lashing out, they are just trying to help. Maybe they try to manhandle Whumpee because they need to get Whumpee out, but Whumpee is not cooperating. 

- Good Caretaker who learns to ask Whumpee what they need, and who keeps a comfortable physical distance with Whumpee.

- Good Caretaker and Whumpee who start to learn each other’s language of affectiona and respect each other’s need and boundaries. Caretaker learns how to help Whumpee without touching them unnecessarily, Whumpee takes comfort in Caretaker respecting them and starts to speak out more about what they need. 

Yeah, plenty of potentials indeed :D 

Feel free to add more if you have any more ideas!

[fog-covered-sekai]

mother

filthy dirty violated

violated

so vulnerable

too vulnerable

cant say no, cant refuse, you owe it, you owe her, you have to, theres no choice, no say

too vulnerable

youve been violated

my personal space, its been violated

my autonomy

my boundaries

cant say no

no no no not me please dont

dont touch me please dont hands soff dont make me

violated

so so vulnerable

you owe it to her, you have to, you are all she has left

all she has left

you have to

you must

cant say no

so violated

im so sorry

i cant protect you

i cant protect me

im so vulnerable, im sorry

im all thats left, i have to do it

i may hate it, but i have to do it

it feels disgusting, but i have to do it

it makes me feel filthy, but i have to do it

it makes me feel violated, but i have to do it

theres no other choice.

just move your body, hold your head still.

its painless.

its violated.

it lasts for hours,

but thats just the autism.

you can breathe now, you can move now. choice is yours now, autonomy is yours now. safe again now. no more now. you are done for now.

just.

for now.

but it will happen again.