Mars Sign Series : Mars In Virgo ♍︎
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Similar to Venus in Virgo, Mars in Virgo natives tend to attract or be attracted to toxic partners, plunging themselves into sadomasochistic relationships and situationships for long, agonizing periods of time before they decide to leave, finally realizing their worth. At the worst, they could stay in these relationships forever, driving themselves mad to where they need mental and emotional help or some sort of counseling. In love and in sex, since Mars rules sex and anger, they could have pretty steady temperaments, yet a very high sex drive, pulling from their other half, Scorpio. In their earlier years, they could be slow to develop, sexually, but when they do develop enough, they can really masterfully manipulate the situation and push past people’s boundaries in the bedroom, consensually. This is especially true if they have Lilith in Taurus, Scorpio, Aquarius or Pisces. They really know how to convince people do to things they never thought they would do, including themselves, especially the men.
For both Mars in Virgo men and women, they could be very shy, meek and conservative, before the whore in them comes out, which is their shadow, their opposite sign, Pisces. Speaking of Pisces, in love and in sex, they could be very sacrificial for others, especially with whoever they choose to be intimate with. Mars in Virgo natives have a tendency to put others before themselves. You guys are typically very neat and clean and if not, you’re reserved, analytical and organized. Not to mention, goal oriented. You can handle many different tasks all at once, but this will cause burnout and potentially problems with your health if you do not take good care of yourself, always putting others, but yourself, first. Virgo rules health, especially gut health, so take care of it like your life depends on it. ⋆˚✿˖°
Again, when it comes to sex and intimacy or partnerships, you could become a masochist without even realizing it. Why? This is because, you’ve already had it in you. It just takes the right or wrong person to bring it out, for better or worse. Usually, for the worst, sadly. Even at work, you could be taken advantage of or involved in sadomasochism. You admire and seek out partners who are intelligent or at least an intellectual, as well as clean, neat and well put together mentally, physically and emotionally.
You could be very insecure and hypercritical of yourself and others. No one is perfect. You may constantly find yourself in compromising situations, legal battles or arguments you cannot win (or you believe you cannot win, due to insecurities) with spouses or past relationships. You may or may not like to micromanage people, even without realizing it. It just something that comes naturally. You make sure everything is done the right way. You can be a workaholic. You are a natural born manager and have zero tolerance for bullshit… except when it comes to your romantic or sexual endeavors, to a great degree. You give people an inch and they take a mile… and you let them, basically becoming their doormat.
You believe that you’re here to serve and be of service to people you get involved with. Even if it costs you your peace, you feel obligated to do this. It’s a service to you that makes you feel "full filled" in some way, shape or form, even if you’re not living in your "fill." Everyone else’s glass is full, while yours is half empty. Don’t be surprised if you’re the more "active" parent or spouse in a marriage or relationship. You really know how to take care of business and others. Sadly, you have a bad habit of thinking you can "fix" people and end up suffering the consequences of that long journey of trying to help build someone up and they only change very little or not at all. You can often also jump into marriage or relationships with someone you barely even got to know personally in the beginning stages of the relationship. You probably never even lived together before the long term relationship or marriage, or you only lived together for a short period of time, before you started to settle down with them. This action will have consequences. This is especially true if you have personal planets, the Ascendant, or strong 7th house placements.
Have patience and get to know someone first before you sleep with, date or marry them. Proceed with caution. Never date or marry someone you think you can "fix." This isn’t a build a bitch or dude work shop. By doing this, you will actually be making them worse, not better. This could make your partner heavily dependent and lazy, nearly unrecognizable than when you first met or first started dating them. You will be miserable, settling, having to take care of them for the rest of your life. Your needs and wants will be put on the back burner. Their’s, will always come first and they will make sure you know this, the more you sweep their bullshit under the rug just to "keep the peace." I noticed people with this placement almost always settle for people in marriage’s and relationships, especially if they’re the bread winner, which is so confusing to me. You’d think it’d be the opposite. You could even develop Stockholm syndrome, depending on the relationship dynamic and how it started, kinda like Persephone X Hades aka Virgo X Scorpio.
She was abducted by Hades and was tricked into eating a pomegranate, bounding herself to the underground for 6 months throughout the year, forever. She went from being terrified and feeling like her freedom and peace in the mortal realm was taken away from her, to eventually accepting her fate and falling in love or convincing herself she was in love with Hades and eventually living up to the title of Queen of the Underworld. This is where the mortal realm continued to chill, freeze over, and crumble for the other 6 months out of the year, for eternity. You watch your world crumble all around you when you submit and sacrifice your happiness for another. In other extreme measures, you could even shut out your mother, father, family and friends for this lover, just to realize later that you made a big mistake.
It’s not uncommon that Mars in Virgo natives get used and taken advantage of because of this sacrificial dedication to service. Even when and if you do break up or depart, it’s usually much later in life, years of your life you cannot have back, or once one of you has died. This could bring extreme sadness, even obsession for some people after the breakup, because you spent so much time and energy in them, even if you weren’t happy. It’s like you’ve always had a love/hate relationship with your partner. For some, more hate than love, or just pure disappointment, yet still choose to stay. For some, it will bring relief, like a weight has dropped off your chest, but you may never admit this openly. Why? Maybe because you knew you had ample time to leave, but didn’t, until it was far too late… the trauma sticks. It may be "too or super late" to leave someone, but it’s never too late to start over. Remember that. You’ve just gotta learn from your mistakes and do better, think better and feel better, and better will come to you. Love is never easy, but it should never be about one taking from the other, either.
As Bob Marley once said, "Truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You’ve just got to find the ones worth suffering for." You just want people you get involved with to be the best version of themselves whether that be friends, partners, or family. I respect that, but know when to put your foot down. You’re a hardworking individual, even a bit of a nerd lol. Virgo, like Pisces is a very sacrificial sign. You dive deep into an abyss or sorrow and sacrifice. You have a tendency to attract controlling, secretive and/or dominating women or men, usually Scorpio Sun, Moon, Venus, Rising & North Node partners. You are constantly in a love/hate relationship with whomever you become involved with either romantically, sexually or both.
