"What If" there's no way that would happen?
I was just reading warsofasoiaf and there are several posts of SLAL arguing with some Anon who poses an AU in which Rhaegar had Elia and the kids staying with her folks in Dorne before he abducts Lyanna. How does that scenario change the negotiations between the new Baratheon regime and the Martells?
(And this Anon is really invested in a plot of the Martells spiriting Elia and the kids out to the Free Cities right after the Baratheon victory so the kids are still a challenge to the Baratheons. At some point you gotta say "I'm not gonna help you plot your fanfic, comrade.")
When someone poses a What If scenario to me, the first question I ask is: how much would have to be different in order for the alternate situation to happen at all?
So I see this premise of "Rhaegar sends Elia and the kids to stay with her fam at Sunspear and then he goes and runs off with Lyanna" and my first response is: why would Rhaegar do that? Of all the shit Rhaegar could've done differently, how is that a plausible alternative to what he did in canon?
If Rhaegar were to put some actual work into keeping his wife and kids out of harm's way while he fucked everything up by cheating on her with Lyanna Stark...Dragonstone is closer, it's plenty secure, and it's already under the Targaryens' control.
You know...remember, that part in the rebellion where Aerys sends Rhaella and little Viserys to stay at Dragonstone so the rebels can't get to them? But he keeps Elia and the royal rugrats, IOW his own grandchildren, at the Red Keep so he can hold them hostage against the Martells? That's how we know this much: a) Dragonstone is much safer than King's Landing in war, and b) Aerys actively used his own son's wife and children as hostages.
If we need to set up an AU in which Elia and her children survive the rebellion...I think it's simplest to start with Dragonstone.
Either way, this Anon's view of the Baratheon-Martell negotiations is doubly nonsensical, because if Elia and her children are out of the Mad King's control---especially if they're at Sunspear!---then the Martells' position in the war is entirely different. If Elia and her children spend the war in a safe place, then Aerys can't hold them hostage. If they're not held hostage, then the Martells see this happening: a) Prince Rhaegar is openly cheating on Princess Elia with a 15-year-old noble girl and they don't know if he intends to return, and b) the Mad King has much less leverage against the Martells. So...once Prince Doran and Prince Oberyn recognize the Targs are losing the war, and so it doesn't even matter if Rhaegar intends to honor his marriage to their sister...what's to stop them from turning cloak?
Or they could just, like, flip the bird at both sides, kind of like Tywin does by staying at Casterly Rock until the last minute. Honestly, the Dornish are better positioned than the Westerlands to sit out the war altogether. If they've got the whole family together at Sunspear...they don't need to fight for the royalists.
If they haven't fought for the royalists, then their position at the end of the war is very different. As SLAL says, if Elia and the rugrats haven't been murdered by Lannister soldiers, then the Dornish aren't coalescing around a blood feud against the new regime. Furthermore, if the Martells have sat out the war, then they're not on the losing side, which means they're in a stronger position relative to the Baratheons.
It's a very different sort of negotiations.












