#wastelandmae

[fallingawkwardly]

Hi - is the Bethesda forum still the right place to download the current version of 3.0 or is there a newer version? Vaguely planning my next playthrough and want to make sure I've got the shiniest Julan possible!

It is, yes, this being the direct link. I should really update it with a newer .esp though, I HAVE worked on it since 2018, I swear...

[iwanttotieyourshoe]

wastelandmae commented on snorlaxatives's post “no offense to people named aaron but who the fuck decided two a’s were...”

“Ll” in Welsh is a single letter that happens to be represented by two characters because there aren’t enough characters in the alphabet, so when you look in a Welsh dictionary, it goes j, k, l, ll, m… (I don’t have one to hand, it’s possible ll comes before l.)

@wastelandmae + @ollieplimsolls I was hoping there was a Welsh connection, but I’ll still always think of it as L-loyd :P Also if I were to read Aaron without any prior knowledge it would end up as Åron which is a totally different sound altogether :D 

Aaaaah the beauty of languages <3 

[wanderlust-and-witchcraft]

wastelandmae

  Sigil question:

You could also rephrase ‘without falling into depression’ as 'while staying on an even keel’ or something else that better describes how you see your not-depressed mental state, if you see what I mean? (Like, some people might say 'mentally healthy’ but I don’t really gel with that phrasing.) So it’s not 'without doing the thing I don’t want’ so much as 'while staying in the place that isn’t that place’. Maybe?

Oh I like this too. Many thanks! I’ll make note. Mentally healthy is a little awkward, yeah, though it is true. 

[ollieplimsolls]

Playlist thing please? Let's go with Ima.

AGHAHFJKGA

I // i’ll be there for you - the rembrandts

M // mamma mia - ABBA

A // africa - toto

[autisticlifehack]

Another idea might be to look for very moisturising shower creams aimed at people with eczema or very sensitive skin. There's a product called E45 Emollient Wash Cream that is very moisturising, if you don't shower frequently you might want to use a regular shower gel first as it's not super cleansing, IMO. There's a cheaper range called Sanex, which is more like a regular shower product but still more moisturising than typical shower creams. I think they're both UK products but you could >

< find something similar elsewhere. Regular ranges' shower creams may beenough if your skin's only a little dry, but if it's really dry and you can't stand touse a moisturising product after you shower, the specialist ones are a lot betterthan most regular ones (I rarely use lotion just because I forget, so I use one ofthese and it really helps.)

[gingerautie]

wastelandmae replied to your post “Hey, anon here about that mom. I meant autistic mom the same way you might say blonde mom or cat mom or so on, just that her kid was autistic. Also, she was hearing voices, so I'm not sure why that wouldn't be associated with schizophrenia. I think what she did was evil but I don't think it is comparable to the other mother, because it wasn't 'wow what a burden' it was 'I am ill and all of a sudden my meds aren't helping enough.' People are using her to show mentally ill moms can't have kids. :/”

If "autistic mom" means "mom of an autistic child" to somebody, it pretty much shows they can't concieve of an actually autistic parent because they don't see autistics as actual people who generally become adults & may have relationships and kids.

Yes, that exactly.