#weight stuff

[fitbonita]

Health is Wealth

[littlequeenofthemangoes]

Hey, if your patient is turning away while stepping on the scale and saying "please don't tell me," there's usually a reason. And then if you announce their weight loudly, FUCK YOU and I hope both sides of your pillow stays warm forever.

[mathopath]

I need someone to sit me in their lap and jack me off while they funnel feed me until I'm senseless and can't fit another drop <3

[inflatabunny]

If I grow my tits I won’t be able to really wear a binder anymore which means no male cosplays (which are my favorite, I prefer male cosplay tbh)

If I lost weight though I’d be more confident cosplaying in general and I’d do more female cosplay which means more big fake boobie content.

There is so much to consider….

[voidboxshop]

You've just got to check out this guy!

He is so silly-looking buuuuut makes for a really great weighted and sensory friend!!

Form his additional beaded weight for a sensory movement/texture and the super soft faux fur texture combination is amazing!!

And is a pretty good size to take around with you if needed!!!

[zoestorm]

Sometimes I hate the mental dissonance in my brain. Like.

I'm a trans woman. I like to dress very femme. It makes me feel good. But a little part of my mind, sometimes, pipes up and says, "Wait, Zoe, aren't you perpetrating harmful stereotypes by dressing femme? You say a woman is a woman no matter how she dresses, but then you go and put on a skirt? Just wear pants!"

shut the fuck up brain

I want to lose weight, I think I'll look better if I shed like 5-10 kg. But that same little part of my mind pipes up and goes, "Wait, Zoe, aren't you perpetrating harmful stereotypes? You say people can look hot at any weight, and then you want to go and get thin? What gives? Are you lying when you say to your fat friends that they look very good?"

no, shut the fuck up brain

It's incredible how social stereotypes fuck with your mind.

I like to dress femme, but that doesn't mean that women who dress butch aren't women, or don't look good. I want to lose weight, but that doesn't mean that fat people don't look good, or are less worthy of love, or have to lose weight.

Intellectually, I understand this. But sometimes brains are a fuck.

[dogwithglasses]

Body stuff/weight stuff/gender stuff

I’ve been thinking about having a corporeal form and it’s not fair that I can’t shapeshift irl. Sometimes (oftentimes) I wish I had different genitals but the different genitals I want aren’t always the same different genitals. Also I wish I could gain like 15 lbs but I’ve kinda plateaued it seems like. Ideally if I could have 15 more pounds in my tits and ass that would be Awesome. I also wish I was hairier - I remember in middle school seeing one of my teachers with A Lot of arm hair and being like “that’s too much I’m glad I’m not that hairy” but I’m retrospect I think that was my nonbinary autistic prepubescent brain not wanting to have a big change to be More Gendered. I would Love to have as much body hair as that teacher did, give me fur Please

[thedeviljudges]

i think it should be said that fat women will always have the upper hand when it comes to exploring gender and what that means over a lot of ppl, not because we ever wanted to, but because we were forced to at such a young age—earlier than when a lot of ppl start exploring. every fat girl has been traumatized by anti-fat rhetoric and fashion enough to make them question whether they’d ever be considered a girl/woman. bc when you’re young and fat, ppl assume you’re not, nor will you ever be, considered a girl. especially when all the clothes you could ever fit into were mens clothing, made to confront the fact that you’re less than other girls and not a real one. standing inside the outsider’s box you’re forced into at that young of an age genuinely provokes you into an identity/gender crisis bc you were never allowed to make the decision for yourself. it was always decided for you based on your weight alone. not to mention the severe guilt you have when you get older and realize you are/want to be a woman; you’ve been conditioned to think you’re less than even if that’s what you identify as. the struggle to fit into femininity is more of a burden because now you just feel like an imposter with no right to hold claim on something that’s never belonged to you in the first place.