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Motown must die

You ruined Motown for me.  Dishes banging, cabinets slamming, loud yells threatening.  All these sounds hit me hard in the solar plexus.  When I want to go dark I put on Motown annd pair it with beer,  all because of you.   Pots that get banged and cabinet doors that get shut too hard are my trigger. I tense up at loud pots because I’m getting ready to be punched in the cheekbone.  Cabinets…

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The Most Dangerous Person in the Room Isn’t Who You Think

Let me clear something up. When I talk about becoming the most dangerous person in the room, I’m not talking about being aggressive, flashy, or the loudest guy pounding his chest. In fact, if you feel the need to constantly prove how tough you are… you’re probably not. The most dangerous person in the room is calm. Collected. Capable. Controlled. And maybe most importantly — he’s got…

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🔥 The “1,000-Year Diet Rule” – The Easiest Way to Eat Clean Without Overthinking It

🔥 The “1,000-Year Diet Rule” – The Easiest Way to Eat Clean Without Overthinking It Want to look leaner, feel better, and stop obsessing over food labels? Then the “1,000-Year Diet Rule” might be the most practical nutrition principle you’ve never heard of — until now. This rule filters out the junk, preserves your energy, and helps you build a healthier, more aesthetic body… without needing…

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The Lie of Victim Identity—and Why It Matters for Protecting Our Kids

The Quote That Changes Everything “A victim identity is the belief that the past is more powerful than the present, which is the opposite of the truth.” — Eckhart Tolle This quote isn’t just a philosophical idea—it’s a challenge. A challenge to stop living through the lens of our pain… and start parenting with purpose. In this post, we’re going to explore how victim identity holds parents…

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🌍 5 Global Champions Protecting Children — And How They’re Changing the World

🌍 5 Global Champions Protecting Children — And How They’re Changing the World Not all heroes wear capes. Some carry clipboards into courtrooms. Some hold megaphones in the streets. And some, like these five, turn personal trauma into world-changing movements that protect our most vulnerable — our kids. From confronting child labor to rewriting laws in dozens of countries, these advocates have…

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The Predator Doesn’t Knock: 7 Places They’re Already Inside Your Child’s Life

We’ve all taught our kids the classic rule: “Don’t talk to strangers.” But here’s the hard truth—predators aren’t lurking in trench coats outside your window anymore. They’re already inside your home, in your child’s pocket, their group chats, their classrooms, and sometimes even wearing a whistle and a smile. This isn’t paranoia. This is protection. And in a world where evil no longer…

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The Delphi Murders: “Guys, Down the Hill” — The Chilling Case That Should Change How We Protect Our Kids Forever

There are crimes that shake a city. Then there are crimes that shake a nation. And then… there’s Delphi. A quiet Indiana town with a population just shy of 3,000. The kind of place where folks leave doors unlocked and kids roam free on a sunny day. But on February 13, 2017, something happened that shattered that peace forever—and exposed a truth far darker than most are willing to…

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🔥 Updated: Is Your Child Safe on Roblox? 6 New Parental Controls Every Parent Must Use in 2025

🔐 Roblox Parental Controls: 2025 Edition 1. Link Your Parent Account To manage your child’s settings remotely, create and link your own Roblox account: Navigate to Settings > Parental Controls on your child’s account. Select Add Parent Account and follow the verification steps using a government-issued ID or credit card. Once linked, you can adjust settings from your own device.   2.  Set…

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If Your Child Has a Phone, So Do Predators — Read This Before it’s too late.

In today’s world, giving your child a smartphone isn’t just about staying connected. It’s giving the entire world access to them — the good, the bad… and the predators. Let that sink in: Your child’s phone is a front door for predators. And unless you lock it down and teach them how to protect themselves, someone will eventually try to walk through that door. This is not…

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Predators Love Polite Kids — Here’s How to Make Yours a Threat”

Let’s cut to the chase: If you only teach your child to be polite, you’re leaving them wide open. Predators love polite kids. They’re quiet. They’re obedient. They don’t want to make a scene. And that’s exactly what makes them vulnerable. 🚨 The Dangerous Lie: “Be Nice. Don’t Be Rude.” From the time they can speak, we hammer it into them: “Be nice.” “Don’t talk back.” “Don’t be…

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🚨Parents, Read This Before Your Kid Logs Into Roblox: The Ultimate Guide to Keeping Kids Safe in the Digital Playground

Roblox isn’t just a game—it’s a digital universe. But for all its creativity and fun, it’s also a hunting ground for online predators, cyberbullies, and inappropriate content. If your child plays Roblox, you need to be more than just aware—you need to be armed. In this ultimate guide, I’ll break down exactly how to keep your kids safe on Roblox with practical steps, eye-opening facts, and…

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Preparation vs. Planning: The Difference Between Success and Survival—Especially for Protecting Kids

Most people think planning and preparation are the same thing. They aren’t. Planning assumes things will go according to a structured outline. Preparation assumes things will go wrong—and ensures you’re ready when they do. If you want to succeed in anything—whether in self-defense, business, parenting, or life—you need both. But if you had to choose one? Preparation wins every time. Nowhere is…

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Protecting Kids in a Dangerous World: Expert Insights from Adam Whittington

Protecting Kids in a Dangerous World: Expert Insights from Adam Whittington As parents, the safety of our children is our highest priority. But in today’s complex and connected world, keeping them safe requires more than intuition—it demands proactive strategies, knowledge, and community action. Adam Whittington, a globally recognized child protection expert with over two decades of experience,…

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Teaching Kids the Power of Choice, Voice, and Boundaries: Empowering Them to Protect Themselves from Predators and Bullies

As parents, educators, and mentors, one of our most vital responsibilities is to help kids develop the skills they need to stay safe. Children today face threats not only from predators but also from bullies—both of which can be emotionally and physically harmful. Teaching kids how to protect themselves starts with empowering them to make decisions, speak up for themselves, and set clear…

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Throw Your Water Bottle Under the Bed: A Simple Safety Hack That Could Save Your Life

Throw Your Water Bottle Under the Bed: A Simple Safety Hack That Could Save Your Life Imagine this: you’ve just arrived at your hotel after a long day of travel. Exhausted, you’re eager to settle in and relax. But before you flop onto the bed or unpack your suitcase, there’s one small habit that could make all the difference in your safety: throwing your water bottle under the bed. This clever…

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The Stoic JiuJitsu Athlete

How Stoicism Can Transform Your Jiu-Jitsu Journey Jiu-jitsu isn’t just a martial art—it’s a mental game. Every roll, every competition, and every loss tests your patience, resilience, and discipline. Stoicism, an ancient philosophy rooted in reason and self-control, offers powerful tools to sharpen both your mind and your practice on the mats. Here’s how Stoicism can help you grow as a…

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Teaching Kids to Set Boundaries: A Critical Life Skill

As parents, one of our greatest responsibilities is to equip our children with the tools they need to navigate the world safely and confidently. Among these tools, learning to set boundaries is one of the most vital. Boundaries protect children’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being, empowering them to communicate their needs, safeguard their personal space, and recognize when something…