What and excellent question!
I know this comes from a place of anger rather than genuine curiosity, but since it has been asked, I might as well try and answer it to the best of my ability. Though excuse me for not taking days to properly formulate and edit and perfect a bombproof essay on it. This is tumblr, and I'm somewhat strapped for time.
Let me start with outlining the kind of preferred "evidence" we like to work with. While we (unfortunately?) are not above clamouring over a blurry candid shot or some mysterious blind item, our first line of inquest has always been her music, followed by what we *perceive* as wilful signals that she herself is using.
These signals are called "flagging" and are based on queer culture. The point of flagging is finding a safe way to express yourself to "safe" people. We don't expect that general Swifties would recognise them, as they are covert and deniable by design.
Which of course leads us to the inevitable question: could we be misinterpreting things? Yes. Yes, we could. What gives us the conviction that we aren't, is Taylor's long history of planting these hints, and how to the "trained eye" so many lines of evidence just keep adding up.
I've not come here to defend every single theory that's out there. Just the most basic basics of it all and our approach to them. So. To get to the meat of the matter.
No. First of all, we have no "incriminating" evidence that would at once convince the general public. As mentioned before, our evidence in form of flagging is circumstantial and designed to be inoffensive enough to be deniable. It would be our word against hers--and we have already seen how that goes in the public narrative... EVEN THOUGH she has never stated anything outright.
When so many celebs fight the queer allegations with very clear language, why does Miss Swift always have to find some weird roundabout way to at least *seem* to get the message across? But man, I'm not gonna even start debating that here, because that's a whole different can of worms.
Next. Do we have any mean or evil intentions when discussing her queerness? No. DECIDEDLY NO. Could some people consider it as risky or misguided? MAYBE. We, however, only have the best of intentions.
First and foremost, we spread the message among US, the queer community. Part of the goal is to create awareness and build a support network to bolster both her and her queer followers for the IF and when the time ever comes for her to make a public statement. The likelihood of this happening is not agreed on. Some think it's a mere matter of time, others fear that it will never be safe for her, or beneficial for that matter.
In leu of a coming out, we are here to signal to her that some people do recognise her for the queer icon she is. We want her to feel less alone, less misunderstood. Can that really be so wrong?
We don't think it's wrong. I don't think it's wrong. It's good intentions and a positive mission all around.
But let's just assume for the sake of argument that we ARE wrong in our assumptions. What exactly is the harm we are doing?
IF she's queer, we are a small force behind her to support her and cheer her on, to give her confidence that she will be loved, even if she dares to take any sort of step towards risking her career by maybe coming out.
IF she's the straightest straight that ever straighted... what exactly are a handful of slightly off kilter queers online REALLY gonna do to her or her reputation or her brand?
I think our power and influence on her, on the world she lives in as a (potentially) straight billionaire MEGASTAR has long been overestimated. We are harmless. Most of us have way more decorum than those who are currently speculating over Travis' manhood and how he's FINALLY fucking her real good and how badly she needed that. Sorry to be crass, but that doesn't even compare to some of the shit I've read online. And each time it drives home to me the fact how deranged other factions of the fandom are. Yet Gaylors are suffering the backlash more than anyone else. Interesting.
Really, at worst, we might be a little bitter, that this man and his role in her life is celebrated in such a way that it now begins to undermine her own accomplishments. Her massive amounts of awards, her impressive catalogue, her world shattering success with The Eras Tour, her fight to regain her masters. That's all cool and cute, until she suddenly gets engaged. Everything seems to pale now in comparison, except that one single further milestone she needs to hit ASAP going by many opinions: Motherhood.
If there is one singular thing we Gaylors really are losing our collectives shits over in the aftermath of the engagement announcement, it's that.
And I think, that's where I'll leave it for now. I hope it gave you a vague insight in our intentions and character. I'm not going to pretend that there is no over the top theorising afoot... like ever... But that's an interesting phenomenon that spans the entire fandom, isn't it? And you know, Taylor will most likely never be any the wiser. Who can even touch her these days? We aren't invading her home, her inner circle, her actual privacy. We aren't the paps who stalk her. We take publicly accessible materials and draw our own conclusions, discussing them online, sharing amongst our peers. What we say has no true bite, but it creates community and awareness for queer issues and language, even if they may not apply to Taylor in the end of the day. Taylor's gonna be fine regardless, whether she's queer or not.
I belive, the Swiftie infighting and all that hatred going around right now makes us all feel and look way worse than any silly Gaylor theories ever could if they are just left alone. For real.
Wanna do "Mother" proud? Start by being more peaceful and tolerant. Stop mocking people for sport. Mind your own business. Come to us to learn if you really want, but not to persecute us. This "civil war" is absurd. At the very least you can go on to ignore us. It would save everyone involved a whole lot of upset 🙏
That's it, I guess. I'm cool with disagreeing. Just let's try and do it in a peaceful (and ideally respectful) way. 🫶