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@teaseanddenialideas
probably my favorite part about being his keyholder I didn't expect was how much I have control over both sexual and non-sexual tasks.
You don't wanna do the dishes? Do you want another 2 days?
You don't wanna take my strap right now? I'm not gonna unlock you this week if you don't. 🤭
Be a good boy and fetch the mail for me.
He always obeys in the end as long as I make him. ;)
chastity as a punishment? yeah, frequently. but also, chastity as a reward. aw, you did so good! and you didn't even need your dick. i should lock you up more often!
Look, chores can either be a pain for both of us (lose-lose), or I can lock you in chastity so that you'll want to do them to make me happy (win-win). It's just logic! You staying locked also motivates you to get them done so much faster. ...though maybe after you start the laundry, you can meet me in the bedroom for a little ME time.
“You’ll do it? Really? Wow! No, no, I’m just surprised that’s all. I assumed you’d want me to tell him no, that it was a hard limit for you. But, if you’re sure, ok, I’ll tell him he was right. Hmm? Oh, yeah, he and I kind of had a bet going. He said you’d do it, I wasn’t so sure. What did he win? Um, well, you know how he said he wanted all of me, including ‘back there’? Yeah, he gets that. He’s gonna be so cocky about it to. For now, go and fetch the toy, we need to have a practice session. If you’re going to be sucking his cock, I want you to be the best you can be. ”
This is a great game I love to play with my darling, desperate to cum after being locked for a while, husband.
We go out, I dress up with a top that shows as much cleavage as still fits a respectable restaurant and sits across to my husband.
The first time I played, I told him that I will add a day to his chastity time for every time he will glance down my cleavage, it wasn't practical, as he earned himself about six months worth of chastity time after the first hour there.
Well I added only two weeks at that time and he got better with time, but he just can't refrain from glancing.
So now, the rules are simple, if he glances the first time in less than five minutes after we sit down, he earns himself an additional day if he glances more than once in the first five minutes, he earns himself a week.
Needless to say, I am the judge and I do the counting....
"The truth is, Cucky, that you should be thankful that my boyfriend lets you masturbate. My sister's boyfriend won't even allow her husband to do that, so her poor cuck hasn't had an orgasm in months."
Ruined Orgasms
What is a Ruined Orgasm?
I guess the biggest misunderstanding about ruined orgasms comes from the word “ruined”. It has a negative connotation. It suggests something unpleasant or unfinished. It's also often called a "touchless orgasm", which is more accurate I believe.
"Ruined" is simply inaccurate. A perfectly “ruined” orgasm is still an orgasm! It will feel profoundly different, but it will always be WONDERFUL – especially if you use it as a way to prolong your lovemaking! Males have been giving themselves orgasms for many years, but one thing that it is basically impossible for them to do is give themselves a "ruined orgasm". This, among other things, is what makes it so mind-blowing.
The basic concept is very simple, in theory at least. Let’s say that his point of no return (the precise moment, no matter what happens, once reached, the body gives the “kick-off” and inevitably triggers the orgasm) is very precisely seven minutes, then you must stimulate him for just under seven minutes (and not a second more). At that moment, release his nub and absolutely stop all your stimulation. As long as he doesn’t receive physical stimulation, his orgasmic reflexes will lead him straight to a ruined orgasm. Mission accomplished!
The key to a ruined orgasm is to find the right moment to interrupt the stimulation. Instead of “letting go at the last second”, you can stop much sooner. The goal is to leave him on the verge of orgasm, as if time were suspended, for as long as possible before his body triggers the ejaculatory reflexes. If you do it correctly his semen should just flow effortlessly drip down along his straining nub.
Do you see that “floating” moment, the time it takes for the semen to flow without caressing it? If so, congratulations, you’ve done it!
Benefits of a Ruined Orgasm
If done correctly, he will still be horny afterwards and will stay hard as a rock, still wanting more, even though he just ejaculated. Ruined orgasms are great when you want to give him an orgasm but still leave him horny when you lock him back up. Or, if you plan to have an all-night love-making session but you are afraid that he will cum to quickly, you can start your evening with a touchless orgasm.
He will experience no 'refractory period' after a ruined orgasm. Whereas a normal orgasm causes him to lose his erection and enter what is called the “refractory period” where he is no longer motivated to have sex, a ruined orgasm has the opposite effect – it causes him to stay hard, fully aroused, hyper-energized, and HIGHLY motivated.
His recover period will be MUCH quicker, and if you have sex after a ruined orgasm, he will last must longer too!
Most of the benefits of a long period in chastity (for you - i.e. motivation, energy, increased oxytocin etc) will not be lost after a ruined orgasm.
How to give a Ruined Orgasm
I'll start by saying that there is no 'one right way'. But this is what I like to do...
SETUP:
Tell him to lie down on his back.
Ideally, restrain his hands behind his back, or tell him to lie on his hands. Most males can't be trusted to not touch their nub at the crux of the ruined orgasm! Tell him he is at no point allowed to touch his (your!) nub. Throw in a blindfold for fun, if you feel like it.
Tell him you are going to give him a ruined orgasm, and that he should not cum until you tell him he can.
TIP: If you don't feel like direct skin contact or don't want any 'mess', tell him to wear tight lycra shorts or swim briefs, and then stroke him through the fabric, rather than have him completely naked.
PROCESS:
With your male on his back, take one hand (i.e. my left hand), and grip his balls and pull them away from his body until his penis is pointing up at almost 90 degrees.
With your right hand's index finger, stroke upwards (from the balls to the tip of the nub) slowly and deliberately. his most sensitive part is the area on the underside of his nub just before the tip. Stop just short of this area. It's much harder for a male to orgasm with an upward stroke as opposed to a downward one.
Keep this motion up for a while. Don't speed up - slow and steady is what you want, so that you don't drive him over the edge too quickly.
Every 10-15 strokes, slowly rub the sensitive area a few times, or gave a few circles along the head of his nub, and then to go back to the slow upward stroking motion.
If you feel his balls contract, or his nub twitches, let go with both hands immediately. Tell him to not cum - "no cumming... don't cum yet". Or you can ask him to announce when he is getting close. When he says "I'm close", let go with both hands. Count to 20, and then pull his balls away again and start with the slow upward motion.
Eventually (or soon, depending on the lockup period!), even letting go completely will cause him to go over the edge. Don't stimulate him at all at this point. The cum should ooze gently from the tip of his nub and down the shaft - no spurting, no major twitching... a perfectly ruined orgasm.
ADDED EXTRA: The second you see any cum being released, tap / slap his balls with the flat of your hand for 20-30 seconds or until all of the cum has been released. Be careful not to touch the penis at this point, only the balls.
Tell him to clean up and re-lock his nub immediately.
Bravo - you've done it!
As mentioned, everyone does it differently, but this is a basic 101! Trust me, he will be begging you for more in no time!!
Pro Tip: If your male is caged and you don't wish to unlock him for a ruined orgasm, use a vibrator or vibrating massager and simply place it on the base ring of his cage, underneath his balls. The vibrations will eventually bring him to the point of orgasm. Ensure he tells you when he is close to climax. At this point, stop the vibrations and cease all contact. If you time it right, his cum with leak out of the front of the cage in a perfectly ruined orgasm.
inspired by @degradecuckqueansandbetas
Ideas to explore fetishes related to male submission and female domination as a couple in a female led relationship. Many of these ideas and themes can be combined and modified to fit your needs.
Denial
Caged. Have him wear a chastity cage so he can only get hard and cum with permission.
Ruined orgasm. Stop stimulation just as he cums to deny pleasure and frustrate him.
Luck of the draw. Have him roll dice to determine his fate.
Hands to yourself. Tempt him with your body but don't allow him to touch.
Visual creatures. Have him jerk off for you but don't let him see your body.
Humiliation
Little guy. Tease him about his size while he's trying to cum.
Pretty in pink. Have him wear panties or otherwise dress up in order to cum.
Safety first. He has to jerk off with a condom.
Messy boy. He can only touch himself in the bathroom and must cum straight into the toilet.
Bad dog. He can only cum from humping something.
Domination
No pain, no gain. Give him a price to cum in the form of spankings.
Heating up. Let him jerk off with icy hot as lube.
Point system. Give him points for chores and services and reward or punish him for his total.
Like a girl. Pleasure him only with a buttplug or finger inserted.
Role reversal. Use a strap on to fuck him.
Cum Eating
Clean up duty. He must lick up his own cum.
Own medicine. He must cum directly into his face or into his mouth.
Bottoms up. Have him cum in a shot glass and swallow it.
Cherry on top. Make him garnish a dessert with his cum and eat it.
Made your bed. Have him cum on your pussy and go down on you.
Premature
Like magic. Hold his penis still in your hand or pussy and have him try to cum.
Softie. He can only jerk off and cum while he isn't fully hard.
Personal best. Give him a time limit he has to cum within.
Nostalgic. He can only cum while making out with you fully clothed and dry humping.
Easy does it. He can only stimulate himself with one finger.
Obedience
On my mark. Give him a countdown.
Past your bedtime. Give him sleeping pills and only let him jerk off when they're kicking in.
Whiskey dick. Give him shots and make him try to get hard and cum.
Self incriminating. Make him ask to be denied pleasure or punished and explain why he deserves it.
Time out. Send him to time out for unwelcome sexual attention.
Cuckolding
Jealousy. Tease him with fantasies about another man.
The flirt. Flirt with someone else in front of him.
Compare and contrast. Have a threesome but neglect or exclude him.
Warden. Give his chastity key to a lover of yours.
Exclusive. Reserve your body for your lover and deny him.
Forced bi
Self suck. Give him a dildo and do to his dick as he does to the dildo.
Sloppy seconds. Have a man cum in your pussy and have him lick it out.
Conversion therapy. Only let him cum to gay porn.
Teamwork. Bring a guy home and make him help you suck and fuck him.
Showtime. Bring a gay guy home and have him put on a show for you.
10 tease & chastity tips
Whether you lock up your man for the weekend, for Locktober/NO-vember/Denial December or some other amount of time, here are 10 fun ideas & tips to make the chastity experience better for you while your man gains his pleasure through yours. Most of what is below is meant to create a horny, frustrated, caged man because they will do almost anything for your pleasure! Enjoy.
1. Part time bitch! I love my husband. I love to run my fingers through his hair. I love kissing him deeply. But I also LOVE the look of surprise and flash of fire and excitement in his eyes when I get a bit bitchy with him when he’s locked up. I’m not talking about being an unreasonable psychopath, just assertive. This would include telling him things I want to happen like a massage, oral pleasure, making meals, snuggling or getting me a drink. I don’t ask, I just tell him. His little cage becomes that much tighter when my inner bitch comes and I love the feeling of control.
2. Sizing him up. I’ve found this works whether locked or unlocked. If you’ve read any of my other posts, you’ll know that my husband is my 3rd lover that I have engaged in chastity with. All 3 would get hard as a steel or would twitch in their cage when I called their manhood small. Let’s be clear, I’m not a dominatrix so I’m not trying emasculate them or humiliate them. But in times of passion or even casusal conversation, asking how my ‘little friend’ is doing down here, or telling him to stroke his little dick slower or faster, if I allow it, or commenting on how cute his little penis looks all produce very effective results. I also love that I can get him instantly hard with my playful and sexy words.
3. Edging. The longer your man is locked up, the more handsy, horny and pleasing he becomes. One way to build that excitement more quickly is through edging. Edging is when he is stimulated to the near point of ejaculating, but he’s not allowed to cum. Either he can do the edging or you can. Personally, I like to do it because I have full control of his pleasure. I love laying next to him with one leg over his. I love stroking his cute little dick and talking dirty because I am causing him such pleasure but love even more that I have the power to take it away. “Does it feel good baby?” “Do you like when I jerk it?” “Ask me to stroke your little dick.” “You know you’re not allowed to cum, right?” Usually there is a whimper or sigh here which makes my heart skip a beat and my inner thighs tingle. “Tell me when you’re close because if you cum, you’ll have to start your lockup time all over again.” This goes on until he tells me he’s close, where his hips are deliciously grinding into the air, that’s when I stop stroking. He usually lets out some frustrated noises and I tell him to go clean up and lock up. The rush of excitement I get is intense. I used to feel guilty years ago with my first chastity boyfriend, but I have learned it is such an erotic rush for the man and the control I have over his pleasure, it gets me so wet. Once he returns and he’s locked up I have him use his tongue to bring me to orgasm. Nothing beats the tongue work and energy of a sexually frustrated, locked up, horny man!
4. Ruining things. One very small step further from edging is a ruined orgasm. This happens when you push ever so slightly past the point of edging where the ejaculation process initiates just after stimulation stops. It is not full on “cumming” because the stroking, rubbing, stimulation ends before or immediately at the point of no return starts. The result is the release of some cum but no reduction in arousal. I do this sometimes when I’m feeling very naughty. I may even take some of his cum and use it as a lubricant for a few moments of self masturbation before I climb onto his face. If you’ve never had your man go down on you with his cum on your pussy, I highly recommend it. You’ll be cumming from his tongue action in record time with amazing intensity!
5. Cage cumming. At times, just to drive him wild, I will take my Hitachi wand and run it on his aching balls and all over his cage. If I do this long enough, he’ll cum but I won't always let him. If he does cum, it is basically a ruined orgasm because just before his little willy begins to spurt, I take away the vibration. Sometimes I make a game of it. I’ll tell him if he can last 5 minutes then he can get something he wants, except he can’t ask to be released. He usually doesn’t last, especially if he’s been locked up for any length of time. Remember the cum lube for masterbating? Another option if you let him cum is to rub his seed on your tits and let him suck on them - all very fun and very, very sexy!
6. Make love to your husband. Sometimes I will let him out of his cage and let him have sex until I cum. He may not cum and he locks up after I have had my orgasm. But when I tell my husband I want to make love with him, I literally want to fuck him in the ass with my strapon. Again, I’m not a dominatrix. I’m not fucking him, yelling, “take that dick bitch!” while beating his ass with a whip. We are moving lovingly and romantically. It’s me laying on his back, skin on skin grinding into him or it’s him laying on his back and we are passionately kissing while I play with his cage. There’s moaning with lots of dirty talk by me and sometimes we both cum together. I love sending him a picture of me wearing the strapon and telling him what a romantic evening I have planned.
7. When he fucks me. One of my favorite things to do, aside from getting oral pleasure is to get fucked with his strapon. I love the look of his small cage just below the dildo. I love feeling his little caged dick smacking against my ass while he’s fucking me. I love how this bigger dick feels inside me and the places it reaches. You can be sure that I’m telling my husband exactly how good this larger dildo feels and I compare his size to the dildo which drives him crazy! This excitement causes him to pound me even harder! Yes, we sometimes both grt to cum, but I cum every single time.
8. Grab him by the balls. I like to caress his balls, especially when they are caged. They feel so full and firm! I love to squeeze them with some force at the request of my husband which I’ve really grown to love. The feeling of his 2 balls in my hand, the warmth and several nice, firm squeezes makes him moan. This also gets me turned on as well.
9. Vacations. There is daily teasing that goes on at home whenever my husband is locked up. Me brushing my ass against his cage, flashing him my tits or ass, or fondling his cage or balls. I like to keep him locked for a minimum of 2 weeks at a time or longer to get the full effect of the frustrated, horny man. I also don’t tell him how long he will be locked because it is MY decision, not his. Sometimes a vacation lands in the middle of his lock time. First, my husband’s cage is metal and if you are going anywhere with a metal dector, like an airport, you should have a backup plastic or resin cage. Prior to leaving, I will have him switch cages to the plastic model then we’ll fly to our destination. I’ve had him caged at the beach and scuba diving, at a several weddings, 2 different countries and 4 theme parks (cages and roller coasters are amazing!). Yes, there have been times I’ve let him out on vacation and we’ve been a 'normal couple’ which is a fun surprise for him. But more often than not, his little boy is locked up and his mouth and hands are quite busy during most of our vacations
10. Inner bum. The art of a prostate massage can be quite pleasurable. Inside of a man’s anus, about a half of a finger length in and opposite the spine is the prostate. If massaged, it can give an intense feeling of pleasure. This is the area where the fluid of semen is produced. By massaging the prostate, you can also make him expel this fluid which appears like cum minus the sperm which are.produced in the testicles. It is amazing that you can make him “cum” several times until he has ejected all of the seminal fluids that were built up and boy is it sexy to watch. I prefer using my finger so I can feel what I am doing but they also make prostate massagers that you can insert that do the same job.
I hope these ideas, suggestions and tips help to make a more sensual, enjoyable and pleasurable chastity experience for you because YOU are what it is all about.
It turns me on, the thought of being denied the full feeling of L's pussy, being forced to wear a condom while he goes bare. Maybe with his cum in her pussy too, lubricating it so the feeling on my cock is reduced even further. And yes, that is maybe a little on the weird side, but isn't that what Tumblr is here for?
"Honey," my wife said, "you're not being fair, I know I said I'd unlock the cage after two months, I just..."
"But it hurts," I interrupted her, "you can't change your mind.
She looked down, almost guilty.
"What?" I asked.
"It...it's not up to me."
"Not up to you? What's that mean? Just go get the key and unlock it."
"You have to ask Ben," she said, voice almost a whisper.
"B...Ben? What's he got to do with this?" Ben was her lover of the last six months.
"He...he's got the key?"
"What?" I demanded.
"Ben has the key," she said. "He...he said our sex life was...was his to control."
