Indefinite Hiatus
This is a long time coming but this blog is going on indefinite hiatus. The OC community is not the same welcoming place it was when I joined and frankly I don’t have the patience to deal with this bullshit anymore. This year was the year I was supposed to forge friendships that would last, the year I was supposed to prepare myself for dealing with the real world and becoming independent without relying on the internet for escapism.
But this isn’t even escapism anymore. This feels like I’ve traveled back in time four years and I’m back in high school.
I understand that some members may be younger than me and if it was just them then I wouldn’t bother, but I know people my age and older who are acting this way and I can’t deal with this bullshit anymore. It’s gotten the point where if I try to curate my own online experience, I end up blocking half the people in my dashboard and I don't want to do that.
But even beyond that, the way this community responds to even the slightest disagreement or attempt to compromise needs to change. The way the OC community is built has allowed for a “my way or the high way” mindset, which only serves to divide us further. In a world with seven billion people it’s impossible to please everyone or curate an experience specifically geared toward one person without leaving several others out. You have to have the self-awareness to know what you're getting into and you have to be able to step back and ask, “how is this affecting other people?” or “am I being unreasonable?” You have to be open to be a part of a community and unfortunately this community is anything but that.
What once was a nice place to make friends and celebrate OCs has turned into a toxic swamp of backstabbing, baseless accusations, and selfishness. And I refuse to take part in it anymore. I made a promise to myself that I would be better, that I am trying to be a better person, and right now the only way I can do that is to leave this community.
If I make posts they are for me and the select few I know will enjoy them, and they won’t be on here anymore. No more taglists, no more ask games, and unless I’m already talking to you, don’t try to message me. I’m not perfect, I know that, and this isn’t to flaunt some moral superiority complex, this is me taking a toxic part of my life and cutting it out.
Happy trails and have fun in your echo chamber I guess.
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